"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Best (motivational) quotes you know
- Thread starter Lolapo
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PeasantPlayer
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Bible_Belt
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http://www.despair.com/demotivators.html
Between_The_Lines
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Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
"I am the greatest!" - Muhammad Ali.
"I'm not the greatest; I'm the double greatest!" - Muhammad Ali.
"I am gonna show you how great I am." - Muhammad Ali.
"Champions aren't made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them - a desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have the skill, and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill." - Muhammad Ali.
"To be a great champion, you must believe you are the best. If you're not, pretend you are." - Muhammad Ali.
(This one is for you guys) "My toughest fight was with my first wife." - Muhammad Ali.
"I know where I'm going and I know the truth, and I don't have to be what you want me to be. I'm free to be what I want." - Muhammad Ali.
"I am the greatest; I said that even before I knew I was." - Muhammad Ali.
"All my life, I was told that I am not sh!t, that I'm ugly, not athletic, and that there is nothing special about me except all the bad traits in a person. Well to all you motherfvckers, look who's the big man now? Smarter, stronger, more socially apt, and better than ALL of you! NO one could have done what I have done in my life. NO ONE! So yeah, go ahead. Call me scrawny, ugly, weak, wussy, say that you can snap me like a twig with one finger one more time! It'll only make me stronger as I prove ALL of you wrong a THOUSAND times over! :box: :box: :box: " - Me.
"Look dude, you do what you gotta do. And deep down inside, you know EXACTLY what it is that you gotta do. The choice is yours if you want to follow through. But if you don't, hey man, that's on you." - Me.
I just realized something, the above [sort of] rhymes.
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Like Muhammad it's the truth
Can't escape from the common rule
If you hate something don't you do it too
Not for you, Pearl Jam
"Doing what you have always done, gets you what you've always gotten."
"You can't have a positive outcome with negative energy. So do what gives you positive energy first, then find your positive outcome."
"The inability to delay gratification leads to the biggest downfalls"
"The greatest and fastest gains in relationships happen when people just stop doing things that are negative. You don't even have to do anything new, just stop the endless displays of low value and negative energy"
Epi
MOTU
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I love those, here are some more.Bible_Belt said:
http://www.marcofolio.net/imagedump/top_40_demotivational_posters.html
Alltime favorite:
http://www.sharenator.com/D_D_D_Dem...onal_posters_my_way_get_out_of_it-139364.html
As far as answering the OP, check out Classics of Strategy and Counsel, by Thomas Cleary. I recommend every DJ get this three book series yesterday, OOP and usually expensive on Ebay but worth every penny.