Hey guys need a little bit of advice again I go to a thai boxing club and have spotted this girl who isnt especially hot but I kinda like her (shes full of energy and can definatly kick ass) the problem is im new the thai boxing so I am not as experianced as some of the other guys and at times i may be doing things wrong. What sorta approach should i use on this girl she is the only half decent girl at the class and I can tell theres one guy there that she likes. I dont get much time to talk unless of course we get paired up to practice.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best method for this situation?
- Thread starter wildchild
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Thundercat
Don Juan
Talk to her after class and invite her out for a drink. Just something like "Hey, I'm going to such-and-such-a-palce, wanna come?"
Might be best to get a big group together first so you can get to know her better, and then the next class see if she'll go out with you one-on-one.
Hope that helps,
Thundercat
Might be best to get a big group together first so you can get to know her better, and then the next class see if she'll go out with you one-on-one.
Hope that helps,
Thundercat
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Dont ask her if she 'wants' to come...use a cul de sac question.
"I'd like to take you out. Where do you prefer? a or b?"
"I'd like to take you out. Where do you prefer? a or b?"
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I've tried sales type rebuttals and closes on women such as the alternate close, I never found them to work very well on chatting up women, yet use them every day in business.
Eye contact, a bit of C&F and just ask. I suppose an assumed close works, but that's because you're signalling dominance and prizability.
Eye contact, a bit of C&F and just ask. I suppose an assumed close works, but that's because you're signalling dominance and prizability.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Desdinova
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What are you, a fvcking mind reader? Quit reading minds because it's preventing you from being successful.
You know, I don't even know why I'm answering this. You've gotta do a little work if you want to bed her. You can't just say "Hi, I'm wildchild. If you come with me, I'll fvck you." If you want an easy way to get laid, go get a prostitute. If you don't want that, quit looking for the easy way out and do some work.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Rape her...if u can.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm concerned. I've seen a few rape related posts (and I know some are jesting), I wonder how many rapists we have on SS? Probably more than the average.
Hopefully this site is more of a positive influence than a negative one.
Hopefully this site is more of a positive influence than a negative one.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
LOL man she's a high class thai-boxer! and wildchild's a begginer... man who do u think is gonna end up being raped (no pun intended) ??
Oh btw wildchild seriously quit mindreading about if u suspect she likes someone and just go for it .... remember if she liked the guy then she would've done something about it... anyways go ask her out and see where that goes and get her to spar with u from time to time.... it's a fact that sexual tension builds up thru action activities
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Let her kick the crap out of you (but don't make it look like you're just letting her), then afterwards tell her she's pretty good. Ask her to coffee or something (she'll be tired, and liking the compliment)
Alexi
Alexi
Man it was all going good. We got to spar tonight and to cut a long story short i was to spar with her ( she was doing it for 3 years this was my 2nd time doing it) i used to do karate when i was younger and was british champ when i was like 13 and it all kinda came back to me. I started blocking and countering her hits ( was only light sparring) then i was like " do you beat up alot of guys... or only the good looking ones?" then i told her i done karate thats how i wasnt too bad at thai boxing and she said we cant all be perfect so i looked her up and down n said " thats obvious" she was laughing n we were carrying on then some1 said i think shes the instructors girlfriend...............screeaaaaaaach. im gonna leave her now thank god i done get oneitis anymore game over move on
game over move on