"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best Method for same or next day lays?

Crissco

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
I noticed im best with the direct approach(gets me in the mood and motivated, plus the bedroom eyes sure help, :p I have no problem walking up and talking to girls im interested in. Lately numbers are useless for me, only good for dates when I want to go on them. Ive been combining methods and its been working great but when it comes to the closing all I know to do is get the number. Im looking for the best method to get the girl to my place in the same day or the following night.

Google : Direct - Method, Mode One and tell me what you guys think of it.

- Crissco -

Edit: Seems to me the DJ method is getting your life sorted out,with priorities coming first. The Mode One method is QUOTED from the admin "get laid the way we want to, our secondary goal is to get laid ( with some method ), our final goal is to share life whatever in the mix, get the priorities straight"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
 

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zekko said:
This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
Exactly my take on it bro. Its different for each person. 99% of the time it just clicks for me and everything just naturally comes out. Its also what works for the individual. If I see a woman I like, naturally my bedroom eyes come on and and shes seduced right there and I work my way in.
Ive been reading into the direct method lately. It basically states tell the woman how you feel and what your intentions are in the first couple of minutes of meeting her.


HeyPachuco! said:
Sinn's method.
Ive heard of him, dont know much about his style though. Personally im more into creating my own style that works for me
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am so going to test that out some night out. I'll try it with say 5 different girls during the night and just see how it works out.
 
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