"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best Method for same or next day lays?

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
I noticed im best with the direct approach(gets me in the mood and motivated, plus the bedroom eyes sure help, :p I have no problem walking up and talking to girls im interested in. Lately numbers are useless for me, only good for dates when I want to go on them. Ive been combining methods and its been working great but when it comes to the closing all I know to do is get the number. Im looking for the best method to get the girl to my place in the same day or the following night.

Google : Direct - Method, Mode One and tell me what you guys think of it.

- Crissco -

Edit: Seems to me the DJ method is getting your life sorted out,with priorities coming first. The Mode One method is QUOTED from the admin "get laid the way we want to, our secondary goal is to get laid ( with some method ), our final goal is to share life whatever in the mix, get the priorities straight"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
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This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
 
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zekko said:
This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
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Exactly my take on it bro. Its different for each person. 99% of the time it just clicks for me and everything just naturally comes out. Its also what works for the individual. If I see a woman I like, naturally my bedroom eyes come on and and shes seduced right there and I work my way in.
Ive been reading into the direct method lately. It basically states tell the woman how you feel and what your intentions are in the first couple of minutes of meeting her.


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Sinn's method.
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Ive heard of him, dont know much about his style though. Personally im more into creating my own style that works for me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am so going to test that out some night out. I'll try it with say 5 different girls during the night and just see how it works out.
 
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