"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best Method for same or next day lays?

Crissco

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
I noticed im best with the direct approach(gets me in the mood and motivated, plus the bedroom eyes sure help, :p I have no problem walking up and talking to girls im interested in. Lately numbers are useless for me, only good for dates when I want to go on them. Ive been combining methods and its been working great but when it comes to the closing all I know to do is get the number. Im looking for the best method to get the girl to my place in the same day or the following night.

Google : Direct - Method, Mode One and tell me what you guys think of it.

- Crissco -

Edit: Seems to me the DJ method is getting your life sorted out,with priorities coming first. The Mode One method is QUOTED from the admin "get laid the way we want to, our secondary goal is to get laid ( with some method ), our final goal is to share life whatever in the mix, get the priorities straight"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

zekko

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
 

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zekko said:
This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
Exactly my take on it bro. Its different for each person. 99% of the time it just clicks for me and everything just naturally comes out. Its also what works for the individual. If I see a woman I like, naturally my bedroom eyes come on and and shes seduced right there and I work my way in.
Ive been reading into the direct method lately. It basically states tell the woman how you feel and what your intentions are in the first couple of minutes of meeting her.


HeyPachuco! said:
Sinn's method.
Ive heard of him, dont know much about his style though. Personally im more into creating my own style that works for me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am so going to test that out some night out. I'll try it with say 5 different girls during the night and just see how it works out.
 
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