"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best Method for same or next day lays?

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
I noticed im best with the direct approach(gets me in the mood and motivated, plus the bedroom eyes sure help, :p I have no problem walking up and talking to girls im interested in. Lately numbers are useless for me, only good for dates when I want to go on them. Ive been combining methods and its been working great but when it comes to the closing all I know to do is get the number. Im looking for the best method to get the girl to my place in the same day or the following night.

Google : Direct - Method, Mode One and tell me what you guys think of it.

- Crissco -

Edit: Seems to me the DJ method is getting your life sorted out,with priorities coming first. The Mode One method is QUOTED from the admin "get laid the way we want to, our secondary goal is to get laid ( with some method ), our final goal is to share life whatever in the mix, get the priorities straight"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ive been reading a lot about seduction lately. Every book and article I can get my hands on. I understand most of it through past and present experiences. There's a lot of contradicting info though. I'm looking for one method to stick and follow through with.
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This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
 
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zekko said:
This doesn't answer your question but:
I hear you about all the contradicting info. Tyler Durden says that when it comes to seduction material, there are a lot of paradoxical concepts that you have to get your head around. Some might apply in one situation but not another and you have to be able to have the right judgement about which method to go with in which situation.

I think when you study different methods you have to pick out what parts have merit and will work for you and what parts don't. Some things I've read are just utter BS IMO. Other things are good for beginners, other things work in certain situations, some work on certain types of girls, some are almost universal truths. I think you should draw from all your resources and use them to make yourself the best man you can be.
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Exactly my take on it bro. Its different for each person. 99% of the time it just clicks for me and everything just naturally comes out. Its also what works for the individual. If I see a woman I like, naturally my bedroom eyes come on and and shes seduced right there and I work my way in.
Ive been reading into the direct method lately. It basically states tell the woman how you feel and what your intentions are in the first couple of minutes of meeting her.


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Sinn's method.
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Ive heard of him, dont know much about his style though. Personally im more into creating my own style that works for me
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am so going to test that out some night out. I'll try it with say 5 different girls during the night and just see how it works out.
 
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