"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best Lap Dance Of My Life

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Originally posted by marketboy
Ok first of all, the strip club I went to is awseome. The girls are fully nude, and its actually not frustrating!!! Here's why... these girls will grind with you until you *** (providng you pay them) and you can touch them all over (except the pu@#*#)

So I think honestly its a great thing. You can grind and touch these hot girls that you lust over in everyday life, and even have a heppy ending....

So what's the problem????
Originally posted by Oxide
When you go to Stripclub, you pay to be sexually frustrated.
Oxide is right. A wh0rehouse would be better use for your money.

Geezzzz....

BGMan:rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm just saying... paying to have a hot ass girl get you off is worth it....

Plus you aren't technically having sex with them, so you don't have to worry abou stds, pregnancy and the other bs that sex brings about
 

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Originally posted by marketboy
I'm just saying... paying to have a hot ass girl get you off is worth it....

Plus you aren't technically having sex with them, so you don't have to worry abou stds, pregnancy and the other bs that sex brings about
Why not just go FIND a hot ass girl to get you off for free?
 

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Originally posted by eternal
Why not just go FIND a hot ass girl to get you off for free?
AMEN BROTHER!!!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Seems like a pathetic way to get around to actually seducing women that hot.
 

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Training ground

Posted by Nightwing:

I've thought about that also. The strip club as a DJ training tool. Except I thought about it more in along the lines of being able to learn self control and reject attractive women and feeling comfortable with it.
Yes, definitely. It's great practice for "reversing the game." That and working on one's physical flirting chops: these gals will often be very "touchy-feely" to try to get you into the VIP room. The two actually go together. It's fun to see 'em get all hot and bothered. :D
 

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Originally posted by marketboy
Anyway here's the thing, I have been with nice girls, and prefer nice girls with nice personalities even if they are average looking to a hot girl that goes out all the time. But I can't help this attraction to a hot sex crazed girl....

What's wrong with me??????
EXCUSE ME????? Says who strippers are sex-crazed? Says who they aren't nice girls? Just because they take their clothes off for money for creepy guys does NOT mean they're not nice girls and that does NOT mean they're sex-crazed! I was friends with a girl who was a stripper my freshman year in college....and she was one of the nicest girls i knew....and she never brought any guys back to the dorm and had sex with them. In fact, she believed in monogamy and thought that the men that went to the club she worked at were sleazy and she said she wouldnt touch them with a twenty-foot pole if she wasnt getting such good tips! For strippers, its a JOB. They dont aspire to become strippers. Its purely for the money. Some might enjoy it, but dont call them sex-crazed or bad girls for it.

Guys like you disgust me. You put a bad name on men everywhere with that attitude towards women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Touchy touchy...

Damn, Luv... you're back here for like five minutes and already starting another fight! Chill out, babe.


By the way, hows your army man doing these days?
 

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You're paying for it. That's just one of the MANY problems.

Another problem is that you really may just be kinda stupid. But don't feel bad. You're in good company with Luvmyarmyman.
 

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Originally posted by marketboy
Ok so last night I figured I'd hit up this strip joint after work.

Well when I got there, I saw a girl with the hottest body I have ever seen dancing naked on stage. I mean her ass, breats, legs, everything was perfect!!!

I ended up getting a lap dance with her, and she was awseome. She did everything, and it was the best lap dance I ever had. Damn she smelled so good, I was all over her.

Anyway here's the thing, I have been with nice girls, and prefer nice girls with nice personalities even if they are average looking to a hot girl that goes out all the time. But I can't help this attraction to a hot sex crazed girl....

What's wrong with me??????
Nothing.

I've been brought up to be a goody two-shoes all my life. I absolutely get off at the idea of dating strippers and sluts. I have friends like that too, ones who feel in their minds that they ought to find some nice mild woman to make a good wife and be there for them, but in their HEART they long for a little insanity to compliment their overly-sane and pensive lifestyles.

Besides, these girls have learned to master their feminine charms. They're professionals. If you've got balls at all, they can turn you on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi Spike! Metal dragged me back in. I haven't been TOO *****y. Besides, it was all PMS. Lame excuse, but i can use it since i'm female.
Correction: the BF isnt in Kosovo YET. he's in washington state training to go to kosovo in march. Coming home for Christmas....Woot woot! He's good though, thanks for asking!

How are you these days?
 

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Re: Re: Best Lap Dance Of My Life

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
EXCUSE ME????? Says who strippers are sex-crazed? Says who they aren't nice girls? Just because they take their clothes off for money for creepy guys does NOT mean they're not nice girls and that does NOT mean they're sex-crazed! I was friends with a girl who was a stripper my freshman year in college....and she was one of the nicest girls i knew....and she never brought any guys back to the dorm and had sex with them. In fact, she believed in monogamy and thought that the men that went to the club she worked at were sleazy and she said she wouldnt touch them with a twenty-foot pole if she wasnt getting such good tips! For strippers, its a JOB. They dont aspire to become strippers. Its purely for the money. Some might enjoy it, but dont call them sex-crazed or bad girls for it.

Guys like you disgust me. You put a bad name on men everywhere with that attitude towards women.
We disgust you, any girl who strips for money gots some problems.

Its a job eh? Fine then whats your price.

I make my money, I don't let the money make me. The money made your friend a stripper ho.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Best Lap Dance Of My Life

Originally posted by TurboLover
We disgust you, any girl who strips for money gots some problems.

Its a job eh? Fine then whats your price.

I make my money, I don't let the money make me. The money made your friend a stripper ho.
You're right, no real woman would put her body out there like that just for the sake of making money. If she really wants to make money, she'll get a real job (sometimes even two) to accomplish her goals.

Like I posted before, stripping is just another form of prostitution and NO real woman would resort to objectifying herself for the sake of living comfortable.
 

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Yeah... they are just good to get my rocks off and thats it....

I love America :)
 

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Re: Re: Best Lap Dance Of My Life

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
EXCUSE ME????? Says who strippers are sex-crazed? Says who they aren't nice girls? Just because they take their clothes off for money for creepy guys does NOT mean they're not nice girls and that does NOT mean they're sex-crazed! I was friends with a girl who was a stripper my freshman year in college....and she was one of the nicest girls i knew....and she never brought any guys back to the dorm and had sex with them. In fact, she believed in monogamy and thought that the men that went to the club she worked at were sleazy and she said she wouldnt touch them with a twenty-foot pole if she wasnt getting such good tips! For strippers, its a JOB. They dont aspire to become strippers. Its purely for the money. Some might enjoy it, but dont call them sex-crazed or bad girls for it.

Guys like you disgust me. You put a bad name on men everywhere with that attitude towards women.
Yeah you're right taking off your clothes in front of complete strangers just for the sake of money makes you a good person:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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