BGMan
Master Don Juan
Oxide is right. A wh0rehouse would be better use for your money.
Geezzzz....
BGMan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Best Lap Dance Of My Life
- Thread starter marketboy
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Geezzzz....
BGMan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
AMEN BROTHER!!!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Training ground
Posted by Nightwing:
Posted by Nightwing:
Yes, definitely. It's great practice for "reversing the game." That and working on one's physical flirting chops: these gals will often be very "touchy-feely" to try to get you into the VIP room. The two actually go together. It's fun to see 'em get all hot and bothered.
LuvMyArmyMan
Master Don Juan
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EXCUSE ME????? Says who strippers are sex-crazed? Says who they aren't nice girls? Just because they take their clothes off for money for creepy guys does NOT mean they're not nice girls and that does NOT mean they're sex-crazed! I was friends with a girl who was a stripper my freshman year in college....and she was one of the nicest girls i knew....and she never brought any guys back to the dorm and had sex with them. In fact, she believed in monogamy and thought that the men that went to the club she worked at were sleazy and she said she wouldnt touch them with a twenty-foot pole if she wasnt getting such good tips! For strippers, its a JOB. They dont aspire to become strippers. Its purely for the money. Some might enjoy it, but dont call them sex-crazed or bad girls for it.
Guys like you disgust me. You put a bad name on men everywhere with that attitude towards women.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Best Lap Dance Of My Life
Guys, I apologize for even reminding her of this forum again. I will do my best to avoid that next time.
Guys, I apologize for even reminding her of this forum again. I will do my best to avoid that next time.
LuvMyArmyMan
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yeah yeah, whatever.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Touchy touchy...
Damn, Luv... you're back here for like five minutes and already starting another fight! Chill out, babe.
By the way, hows your army man doing these days?
Damn, Luv... you're back here for like five minutes and already starting another fight! Chill out, babe.
By the way, hows your army man doing these days?
Soma
Banned
You're paying for it. That's just one of the MANY problems.
Another problem is that you really may just be kinda stupid. But don't feel bad. You're in good company with Luvmyarmyman.
Another problem is that you really may just be kinda stupid. But don't feel bad. You're in good company with Luvmyarmyman.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
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Nothing.
I've been brought up to be a goody two-shoes all my life. I absolutely get off at the idea of dating strippers and sluts. I have friends like that too, ones who feel in their minds that they ought to find some nice mild woman to make a good wife and be there for them, but in their HEART they long for a little insanity to compliment their overly-sane and pensive lifestyles.
Besides, these girls have learned to master their feminine charms. They're professionals. If you've got balls at all, they can turn you on.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Re: Touchy touchy...
I get the feeling she won't be posting here for awhile but he's fine. He's recently been sent to Kosovo for over a year.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LuvMyArmyMan
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Hi Spike! Metal dragged me back in. I haven't been TOO *****y. Besides, it was all PMS. Lame excuse, but i can use it since i'm female.
Correction: the BF isnt in Kosovo YET. he's in washington state training to go to kosovo in march. Coming home for Christmas....Woot woot! He's good though, thanks for asking!
How are you these days?
Correction: the BF isnt in Kosovo YET. he's in washington state training to go to kosovo in march. Coming home for Christmas....Woot woot! He's good though, thanks for asking!
How are you these days?
TurboLover
Senior Don Juan
Re: Re: Best Lap Dance Of My Life
Its a job eh? Fine then whats your price.
I make my money, I don't let the money make me. The money made your friend a stripper ho.
We disgust you, any girl who strips for money gots some problems.
Its a job eh? Fine then whats your price.
I make my money, I don't let the money make me. The money made your friend a stripper ho.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Best Lap Dance Of My Life
Like I posted before, stripping is just another form of prostitution and NO real woman would resort to objectifying herself for the sake of living comfortable.
You're right, no real woman would put her body out there like that just for the sake of making money. If she really wants to make money, she'll get a real job (sometimes even two) to accomplish her goals.
Like I posted before, stripping is just another form of prostitution and NO real woman would resort to objectifying herself for the sake of living comfortable.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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