"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best "Kino"/Hook-up initiation moves

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What are some of the ways you approach a girl for that first moment of physical contact (I don't mean first touch ever, I mean when you're going in to hook up with her the first time)?

- When standing, I put my hands on their waist. Our lower bodies get very close. Touching really. I continue the conversation with my upper body leaned back just a little so its still a pretty normal conversing distance away from the girl. Then I gradually move in, getting closer and closer, and then kissing her.

Unfortunately that's pretty much my only move. It works well enough but I'd like a wider repertoire.

Fire away.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I take this silence as: "we don't get this far with girls, we can't help you?"

I would hope that's not the case.
 
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HeMan said:
a tongue up her arse always work for me..
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Yeah I tried that she was all like "please don't tongue punch my as$hole blah blah blah..." Women, right?

But seriously, I could use some ideas.
 
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Play with her fingers, it can also be very discreet, grab the arm, squeeze and see if she responds, then do a playful little finger play like a boyfriend/girlfriend thing.

Your move is pretty much this short of a make-out session/sex, I think you are all set there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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