"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best "Kino"/Hook-up initiation moves

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What are some of the ways you approach a girl for that first moment of physical contact (I don't mean first touch ever, I mean when you're going in to hook up with her the first time)?

- When standing, I put my hands on their waist. Our lower bodies get very close. Touching really. I continue the conversation with my upper body leaned back just a little so its still a pretty normal conversing distance away from the girl. Then I gradually move in, getting closer and closer, and then kissing her.

Unfortunately that's pretty much my only move. It works well enough but I'd like a wider repertoire.

Fire away.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I take this silence as: "we don't get this far with girls, we can't help you?"

I would hope that's not the case.
 
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HeMan said:
a tongue up her arse always work for me..
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Yeah I tried that she was all like "please don't tongue punch my as$hole blah blah blah..." Women, right?

But seriously, I could use some ideas.
 
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Play with her fingers, it can also be very discreet, grab the arm, squeeze and see if she responds, then do a playful little finger play like a boyfriend/girlfriend thing.

Your move is pretty much this short of a make-out session/sex, I think you are all set there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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