"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best "Kino"/Hook-up initiation moves

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What are some of the ways you approach a girl for that first moment of physical contact (I don't mean first touch ever, I mean when you're going in to hook up with her the first time)?

- When standing, I put my hands on their waist. Our lower bodies get very close. Touching really. I continue the conversation with my upper body leaned back just a little so its still a pretty normal conversing distance away from the girl. Then I gradually move in, getting closer and closer, and then kissing her.

Unfortunately that's pretty much my only move. It works well enough but I'd like a wider repertoire.

Fire away.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I take this silence as: "we don't get this far with girls, we can't help you?"

I would hope that's not the case.
 
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HeMan said:
a tongue up her arse always work for me..
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Yeah I tried that she was all like "please don't tongue punch my as$hole blah blah blah..." Women, right?

But seriously, I could use some ideas.
 
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Play with her fingers, it can also be very discreet, grab the arm, squeeze and see if she responds, then do a playful little finger play like a boyfriend/girlfriend thing.

Your move is pretty much this short of a make-out session/sex, I think you are all set there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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