She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Thanks for the help. the more i think about it, the more I realize you're right. The method is hardly important, but it must fit the situation and the girl.Axcell said:Who cares? I mean, I strongly believe "textbook stuff" can help, but I don't believe in following everything word for word - especially routines. Mystery's kiss close is NOT something I would recommend to do. Do you not realize how public the PUA world has become? That line has probably been used 1000's of times before. Each moment should be individual between you and a girl. The last thing you want is to use the same routine that an ex-boyfriend used!
Just casually have a good conversation with her in a place where both you and her are comfortable (that way she opens up to you and is comfortable kissing) For example: If she is a shy girl, she may not be comfortable kissing you in front of a lot of people, so you may want to go to a quiet park where they may not be so many people. That's why it is important to get to know the girl better and adapt based on what you find.. canned material does not account for any of the points mentioned above. Any, I shall continue. Have a casual conversation, make her laugh and wait for a bit of silence... (and ensure you have made enough rapport with her from the beginning) and than kiss her. It's not that difficult so don't make it seem like it is!
It is JUST a kiss, relax. Follow my method, stop using canned stuff. I, myself look at canned material but only to gain knowledge for personal ideas of my own or to alter them a bit... not to actually follow them exactly! You should do the same.
Hope I helped,
Axcell.
Haha, exactly. Glad I could help you out.dj_jazzybrad said:Thanks for the help. the more i think about it, the more I realize you're right. The method is hardly important, but it must fit the situation and the girl.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.