"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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XD x 100The Shocker said:Date Rape by Sublime
Personally, I find it very awkward to be serenaded, but if you insist I suppose "Brown-eyed girl" is fairly universal...
Mate, seriously, shut up.sexxyback said:Yes. So you stfu. It is the most supplicating afc behavior of them all. Do you buy them flowers, too?
You can't just be so certain that this is the most "supplicating" behaviour, and "AFC" or whatever.
If done right, you can come off with some serious DHVs.
And I am speaking from personal experience, if you play the guitar and have tried this, without much success, then you are not doing it correctly.
It's that simple.
You can't just say "It's the most supplicating afc behaviour of them all", read it again mate, you sound like a tool.
Don't be so certain and generalize so much, it can work, if done right.
Although I don't think you should ever play love songs to a woman unless you're playing them to a room full of people. If you want to strengthen an LTR, play one that suits your relationship or one just for her, even replace lyrics in songs will sometimes work.
Never sing to a woman if you think you'd stand a good chance on American Idol, because you probably then suck.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Glad to see you're a Sublime fan. Great fvcking band. Anyway, this kind of thing is good to attract chicks and as an "out of the blue" behavior from a DJ. If you're a supplicating AFC and you do this, it's not gonna work. If you're a C+F DJ, rarely give her anything she wants directly, this will melt her heart.girl_in_a_boy_forum said:XD x 100
Personally, I find it very awkward to be serenaded, but if you insist I suppose "Brown-eyed girl" is fairly universal...
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