"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Best Guitar Songs for Attraction...?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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XD x 100The Shocker said:Date Rape by Sublime
Personally, I find it very awkward to be serenaded, but if you insist I suppose "Brown-eyed girl" is fairly universal...
Mate, seriously, shut up.sexxyback said:Yes. So you stfu. It is the most supplicating afc behavior of them all. Do you buy them flowers, too?
You can't just be so certain that this is the most "supplicating" behaviour, and "AFC" or whatever.
If done right, you can come off with some serious DHVs.
And I am speaking from personal experience, if you play the guitar and have tried this, without much success, then you are not doing it correctly.
It's that simple.
You can't just say "It's the most supplicating afc behaviour of them all", read it again mate, you sound like a tool.
Don't be so certain and generalize so much, it can work, if done right.
Although I don't think you should ever play love songs to a woman unless you're playing them to a room full of people. If you want to strengthen an LTR, play one that suits your relationship or one just for her, even replace lyrics in songs will sometimes work.
Never sing to a woman if you think you'd stand a good chance on American Idol, because you probably then suck.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Glad to see you're a Sublime fan. Great fvcking band. Anyway, this kind of thing is good to attract chicks and as an "out of the blue" behavior from a DJ. If you're a supplicating AFC and you do this, it's not gonna work. If you're a C+F DJ, rarely give her anything she wants directly, this will melt her heart.girl_in_a_boy_forum said:XD x 100
Personally, I find it very awkward to be serenaded, but if you insist I suppose "Brown-eyed girl" is fairly universal...
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