"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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best friends x wants to have sex with me...

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well the title explains it all... one of my best friends is well..the typa guy i wanna b....he has all the looks gets every grl he wants. and his x wants to have sex with me....should i? he doesnt mind i asked him. i'm a virgin and well u all kno how it is...i've been waiting 4 this for the longest time, but the ? is will i regret it? and is it the right thing 2 do since its my friends x, even tho he said yes...?


HELP PLEASE i've got a week to decide...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would tap it if he said that it was alright.

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Of course, I would go for it.

I'm still a virgin and I don't give a damn. What are you worrying about? It's the end of the world, is it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GaryUranga said:
just hope she doesnt say "his was bigger"
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Ha, that wouldn't feel good to hear that. But, who cares if you get the pvssy!
 
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you will regret it if you don't do this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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man...
U guys !
WTF?!
lol
i may be weird since all you guys are goin " goin for it man !"
butt... its ur first time...
U ll rememba it foreva...
don't U actualli wanna give ur first time to sumone U trulli luvv?
nott justt to sum chick datt is horny and wanna have sexx witt U and was also ur buddies ex?!
trust me man...
deres gonna be more grrls outt dere yo !
 
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xilley said:
man...
WTF?!
don't U actualli wanna give ur first time to sumone U trulli luvv?
nott justt to sum chick datt is horny and wanna have sexx witt U
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Do you, per chance, spend your free time watching 'The Little Mermaid'?
 
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I wouldn't take a friend's sloppy seconds. But that's just me.
 
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yeah well i've been thinking...i think i'll do everything but sex, cz i want 2 have sex with a girl that i score off my own game....not off a grl being desprate 4 sex ya kno? so yeah cz i figure it never hurts to get good @ kissing and everything else.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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niceguy91 said:
yeah well i've been thinking...i think i'll do everything but sex, cz i want 2 have sex with a girl that i score off my own game....not off a grl being desprate 4 sex ya kno? so yeah cz i figure it never hurts to get good @ kissing and everything else.
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You're scared aren't you.
 
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not rlly....she's well umm not so good looking @ all. like i'd do her with a bag over her head. she can look hot but she's not very much at all...
 
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not rlly....she's well umm not so good looking @ all. like i'd do her with a bag over her head. she can look hot but she's not very much at all...
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I love your little excuses hahaha.
 
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no really its true i did consider it but idk i guess also tht i'm afrade i'll regret it. cz i wanna hav sex... but not with letovers, and no pitty sex. i wanna get it on my own outta my own game, not my friends game
 
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niceguy91 said:
no really its true i did consider it but idk i guess also tht i'm afrade i'll regret it. cz i wanna hav sex... but not with letovers, and no pitty sex. i wanna get it on my own outta my own game, not my friends game
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Your friend didn't hook u up or anything, it's fine if you have sex with her. Do it for the experience, and use that to your advantage cause you'll no longer be a virgin.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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