Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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best friends x wants to have sex with me...

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well the title explains it all... one of my best friends is well..the typa guy i wanna b....he has all the looks gets every grl he wants. and his x wants to have sex with me....should i? he doesnt mind i asked him. i'm a virgin and well u all kno how it is...i've been waiting 4 this for the longest time, but the ? is will i regret it? and is it the right thing 2 do since its my friends x, even tho he said yes...?


HELP PLEASE i've got a week to decide...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would tap it if he said that it was alright.

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Of course, I would go for it.

I'm still a virgin and I don't give a damn. What are you worrying about? It's the end of the world, is it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GaryUranga said:
just hope she doesnt say "his was bigger"
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Ha, that wouldn't feel good to hear that. But, who cares if you get the pvssy!
 
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you will regret it if you don't do this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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man...
U guys !
WTF?!
lol
i may be weird since all you guys are goin " goin for it man !"
butt... its ur first time...
U ll rememba it foreva...
don't U actualli wanna give ur first time to sumone U trulli luvv?
nott justt to sum chick datt is horny and wanna have sexx witt U and was also ur buddies ex?!
trust me man...
deres gonna be more grrls outt dere yo !
 
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xilley said:
man...
WTF?!
don't U actualli wanna give ur first time to sumone U trulli luvv?
nott justt to sum chick datt is horny and wanna have sexx witt U
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Do you, per chance, spend your free time watching 'The Little Mermaid'?
 
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I wouldn't take a friend's sloppy seconds. But that's just me.
 
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yeah well i've been thinking...i think i'll do everything but sex, cz i want 2 have sex with a girl that i score off my own game....not off a grl being desprate 4 sex ya kno? so yeah cz i figure it never hurts to get good @ kissing and everything else.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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niceguy91 said:
yeah well i've been thinking...i think i'll do everything but sex, cz i want 2 have sex with a girl that i score off my own game....not off a grl being desprate 4 sex ya kno? so yeah cz i figure it never hurts to get good @ kissing and everything else.
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You're scared aren't you.
 
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not rlly....she's well umm not so good looking @ all. like i'd do her with a bag over her head. she can look hot but she's not very much at all...
 
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not rlly....she's well umm not so good looking @ all. like i'd do her with a bag over her head. she can look hot but she's not very much at all...
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I love your little excuses hahaha.
 
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no really its true i did consider it but idk i guess also tht i'm afrade i'll regret it. cz i wanna hav sex... but not with letovers, and no pitty sex. i wanna get it on my own outta my own game, not my friends game
 
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niceguy91 said:
no really its true i did consider it but idk i guess also tht i'm afrade i'll regret it. cz i wanna hav sex... but not with letovers, and no pitty sex. i wanna get it on my own outta my own game, not my friends game
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Your friend didn't hook u up or anything, it's fine if you have sex with her. Do it for the experience, and use that to your advantage cause you'll no longer be a virgin.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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