"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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best friends x wants to have sex with me...

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well the title explains it all... one of my best friends is well..the typa guy i wanna b....he has all the looks gets every grl he wants. and his x wants to have sex with me....should i? he doesnt mind i asked him. i'm a virgin and well u all kno how it is...i've been waiting 4 this for the longest time, but the ? is will i regret it? and is it the right thing 2 do since its my friends x, even tho he said yes...?


HELP PLEASE i've got a week to decide...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would tap it if he said that it was alright.

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Of course, I would go for it.

I'm still a virgin and I don't give a damn. What are you worrying about? It's the end of the world, is it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GaryUranga said:
just hope she doesnt say "his was bigger"
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Ha, that wouldn't feel good to hear that. But, who cares if you get the pvssy!
 
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you will regret it if you don't do this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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man...
U guys !
WTF?!
lol
i may be weird since all you guys are goin " goin for it man !"
butt... its ur first time...
U ll rememba it foreva...
don't U actualli wanna give ur first time to sumone U trulli luvv?
nott justt to sum chick datt is horny and wanna have sexx witt U and was also ur buddies ex?!
trust me man...
deres gonna be more grrls outt dere yo !
 
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xilley said:
man...
WTF?!
don't U actualli wanna give ur first time to sumone U trulli luvv?
nott justt to sum chick datt is horny and wanna have sexx witt U
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Do you, per chance, spend your free time watching 'The Little Mermaid'?
 
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I wouldn't take a friend's sloppy seconds. But that's just me.
 
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yeah well i've been thinking...i think i'll do everything but sex, cz i want 2 have sex with a girl that i score off my own game....not off a grl being desprate 4 sex ya kno? so yeah cz i figure it never hurts to get good @ kissing and everything else.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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niceguy91 said:
yeah well i've been thinking...i think i'll do everything but sex, cz i want 2 have sex with a girl that i score off my own game....not off a grl being desprate 4 sex ya kno? so yeah cz i figure it never hurts to get good @ kissing and everything else.
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You're scared aren't you.
 
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not rlly....she's well umm not so good looking @ all. like i'd do her with a bag over her head. she can look hot but she's not very much at all...
 
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not rlly....she's well umm not so good looking @ all. like i'd do her with a bag over her head. she can look hot but she's not very much at all...
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I love your little excuses hahaha.
 
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no really its true i did consider it but idk i guess also tht i'm afrade i'll regret it. cz i wanna hav sex... but not with letovers, and no pitty sex. i wanna get it on my own outta my own game, not my friends game
 
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niceguy91 said:
no really its true i did consider it but idk i guess also tht i'm afrade i'll regret it. cz i wanna hav sex... but not with letovers, and no pitty sex. i wanna get it on my own outta my own game, not my friends game
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Your friend didn't hook u up or anything, it's fine if you have sex with her. Do it for the experience, and use that to your advantage cause you'll no longer be a virgin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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