"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best First Date Venue..

Michaelangelo

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Met this girl at a party, got her digits, called her, and now i got a date setup for tommorow. I didnt tell her wat we were goin to do as i said it was a suprise...

So now im tryin to think of a good place to take this girl... Honestly I don't want to waste lots of money on her.. By the way im 20 years old so i don't want to do the classy dinner date thing, and i dun't thinkin doin the typical watcha movie in the theatre would be fun...... This girl seems like the fun outgoin type.. I was thinkin doin Lazer tag, itd be fun playin a quick game, i could see lots of oppertunity for kino and teasing. And then after we would rent a movie watch it at my house on my bed ;) . Im curouis to kno wat you guys think of Lazer tag? I was thinkin maybe bowling instead.. Any ideas on wat u think i shud do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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You should do both bowling and lazer tag.

It'll be fun and then you can watch a movie together at your place.

Fun + isolating the chick= good chance for you to get laid.
 

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Depends what you want.. IF you want relationship go somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person (i.e. coffee as mentioned above, or dinner). If you just want to have a physical type of relationship then go somewhere where you cant talk. Point is, most of the time the more you say the more you ruin her image of you and you kill your chances. Not because something wrong with you, but because we are all so different and as you get to know each other, the difference become more clear. Thus, take her to a movie or a loud club where you drink, dance (or if cant dance hang out) listen to good music... etc...
 

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I really like the suggestion Kontroller made about bowling.

I am a huge supporter of bowling dates. It lets you both be a little physically active, offers up kino opportunities on a platter (if she gets a strike, you high-five her...next time it happens, fake the high five, and if things are going good, she'll playfight or playtickle you), and, most importantly to us younger guys, is damn easy on the wallet.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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