"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best First Date Venue..

Michaelangelo

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Met this girl at a party, got her digits, called her, and now i got a date setup for tommorow. I didnt tell her wat we were goin to do as i said it was a suprise...

So now im tryin to think of a good place to take this girl... Honestly I don't want to waste lots of money on her.. By the way im 20 years old so i don't want to do the classy dinner date thing, and i dun't thinkin doin the typical watcha movie in the theatre would be fun...... This girl seems like the fun outgoin type.. I was thinkin doin Lazer tag, itd be fun playin a quick game, i could see lots of oppertunity for kino and teasing. And then after we would rent a movie watch it at my house on my bed ;) . Im curouis to kno wat you guys think of Lazer tag? I was thinkin maybe bowling instead.. Any ideas on wat u think i shud do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KontrollerX

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You should do both bowling and lazer tag.

It'll be fun and then you can watch a movie together at your place.

Fun + isolating the chick= good chance for you to get laid.
 

TruthHurts

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Depends what you want.. IF you want relationship go somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person (i.e. coffee as mentioned above, or dinner). If you just want to have a physical type of relationship then go somewhere where you cant talk. Point is, most of the time the more you say the more you ruin her image of you and you kill your chances. Not because something wrong with you, but because we are all so different and as you get to know each other, the difference become more clear. Thus, take her to a movie or a loud club where you drink, dance (or if cant dance hang out) listen to good music... etc...
 

Luscious

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I really like the suggestion Kontroller made about bowling.

I am a huge supporter of bowling dates. It lets you both be a little physically active, offers up kino opportunities on a platter (if she gets a strike, you high-five her...next time it happens, fake the high five, and if things are going good, she'll playfight or playtickle you), and, most importantly to us younger guys, is damn easy on the wallet.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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