"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best First Date Venue..

Michaelangelo

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Met this girl at a party, got her digits, called her, and now i got a date setup for tommorow. I didnt tell her wat we were goin to do as i said it was a suprise...

So now im tryin to think of a good place to take this girl... Honestly I don't want to waste lots of money on her.. By the way im 20 years old so i don't want to do the classy dinner date thing, and i dun't thinkin doin the typical watcha movie in the theatre would be fun...... This girl seems like the fun outgoin type.. I was thinkin doin Lazer tag, itd be fun playin a quick game, i could see lots of oppertunity for kino and teasing. And then after we would rent a movie watch it at my house on my bed ;) . Im curouis to kno wat you guys think of Lazer tag? I was thinkin maybe bowling instead.. Any ideas on wat u think i shud do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KontrollerX

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You should do both bowling and lazer tag.

It'll be fun and then you can watch a movie together at your place.

Fun + isolating the chick= good chance for you to get laid.
 

TruthHurts

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Depends what you want.. IF you want relationship go somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person (i.e. coffee as mentioned above, or dinner). If you just want to have a physical type of relationship then go somewhere where you cant talk. Point is, most of the time the more you say the more you ruin her image of you and you kill your chances. Not because something wrong with you, but because we are all so different and as you get to know each other, the difference become more clear. Thus, take her to a movie or a loud club where you drink, dance (or if cant dance hang out) listen to good music... etc...
 

Luscious

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I really like the suggestion Kontroller made about bowling.

I am a huge supporter of bowling dates. It lets you both be a little physically active, offers up kino opportunities on a platter (if she gets a strike, you high-five her...next time it happens, fake the high five, and if things are going good, she'll playfight or playtickle you), and, most importantly to us younger guys, is damn easy on the wallet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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