"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Michaelangelo

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Met this girl at a party, got her digits, called her, and now i got a date setup for tommorow. I didnt tell her wat we were goin to do as i said it was a suprise...

So now im tryin to think of a good place to take this girl... Honestly I don't want to waste lots of money on her.. By the way im 20 years old so i don't want to do the classy dinner date thing, and i dun't thinkin doin the typical watcha movie in the theatre would be fun...... This girl seems like the fun outgoin type.. I was thinkin doin Lazer tag, itd be fun playin a quick game, i could see lots of oppertunity for kino and teasing. And then after we would rent a movie watch it at my house on my bed ;) . Im curouis to kno wat you guys think of Lazer tag? I was thinkin maybe bowling instead.. Any ideas on wat u think i shud do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KontrollerX

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You should do both bowling and lazer tag.

It'll be fun and then you can watch a movie together at your place.

Fun + isolating the chick= good chance for you to get laid.
 

TruthHurts

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Depends what you want.. IF you want relationship go somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person (i.e. coffee as mentioned above, or dinner). If you just want to have a physical type of relationship then go somewhere where you cant talk. Point is, most of the time the more you say the more you ruin her image of you and you kill your chances. Not because something wrong with you, but because we are all so different and as you get to know each other, the difference become more clear. Thus, take her to a movie or a loud club where you drink, dance (or if cant dance hang out) listen to good music... etc...
 

Luscious

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I really like the suggestion Kontroller made about bowling.

I am a huge supporter of bowling dates. It lets you both be a little physically active, offers up kino opportunities on a platter (if she gets a strike, you high-five her...next time it happens, fake the high five, and if things are going good, she'll playfight or playtickle you), and, most importantly to us younger guys, is damn easy on the wallet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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