"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im goin on a trip tomorrow and im gonna be stuck on the plane for a LONG time so i figured listening to a podcast wouldnt be a bad idea...do u guys know any good ones?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Player Supreme a.k.a. Zen Mack - my personal opinion

Kontroller, it seems that you have some unhealthy obsession with this guy.
 

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The same can be said for you and Supreme Vladdy.

Apparently justiceseeker was right about you and that guy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ima try out all of these and download an episode or 2 each. thanks guys
 

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Tom Leykis. In fact it should be mandatory for everyone on this board. Too many pus$ies.
 

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At least I don't worship one of those know-it-all radio talking head wise guys, who also has extra 100lb of fat on him , half of which is distributed to his face.

I UNDERSTAND Supreme, and can relate to him in many ways. When I started listening to his shows, it's as if I was listening to my own inner being.



HOWEVER, what I wrote above about your hero... is based on seeing a couple of pics of him, and listening to like 5 minutes of him talking about how you shouldn't be working at MikkyD's (surprize of the century right there).

SO,
perhaps my opinion will change cuz im planning to check out what else he has to say. Maybe I'm wrong and the man is saying some good sh!t, I'll listen to some Tom's shows.. Kontroller, do I click on that link on your sig or what?
 

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"At least I don't worship one of those know-it-all radio talking head wise guys, who also has extra 100lb of fat on him , half of which is distributed to his face."

No instead you worship a guy with 80lb of fat on him who stole all his material from Tariq Nasheed.

At least Leykis is a self made man.

"I UNDERSTAND Supreme, and can relate to him in many ways. When I started listening to his shows, it's as if I was listening to my own inner being."

Which is why we listen to any kind of talk show or follow any kind of writer.
Yeah though Surpreme is a rip off of Tariq and probably ripped off of Tom as well to be honest since Tom has been doing his show practically since before most of us were born or at least since we were small children.

I don't know about you but I can't bring myself to player
hate on any guy that consistently pulls hot b!tches and
especially not a fat guy that pulls hot b!tches because its gotta be harder for them and whats amazing about Tom is he was pulling quality tail even before he got famous.

"SO, perhaps my opinion will change cuz im planning to check out what else he has to say. Maybe I'm wrong and the man is saying some good sh!t, I'll listen to some Tom's shows.. Kontroller, do I click on that link on your sig or what?"

Yep, just click away and subscribe.

Tom won't make you pay to hear his advice or use his website like Player Supreme does and if you hear anything thats familiar that you've heard from PS while listening to Tom's show remember it was Tom who got ripped off and not the other way around.
 

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KontrollerX said:
"At least I don't worship one of those know-it-all radio talking head wise guys, who also has extra 100lb of fat on him , half of which is distributed to his face."

No instead you worship a guy with 80lb of fat on him who stole all his material from Tariq Nasheed.

At least Leykis is a self made man.

"I UNDERSTAND Supreme, and can relate to him in many ways. When I started listening to his shows, it's as if I was listening to my own inner being."

Which is why we listen to any kind of talk show or follow any kind of writer.
Yeah though Surpreme is a rip off of Tariq and probably ripped off of Tom as well to be honest since Tom has been doing his show practically since before most of us were born or at least since we were small children.

I don't know about you but I can't bring myself to player
hate on any guy that consistently pulls hot b!tches and
especially not a fat guy that pulls hot b!tches because its gotta be harder for them and whats amazing about Tom is he was pulling quality tail even before he got famous.

"SO, perhaps my opinion will change cuz im planning to check out what else he has to say. Maybe I'm wrong and the man is saying some good sh!t, I'll listen to some Tom's shows.. Kontroller, do I click on that link on your sig or what?"

Yep, just click away and subscribe.

Tom won't make you pay to hear his advice or use his website like Player Supreme does and if you hear anything thats familiar that you've heard from PS while listening to Tom's show remember it was Tom who got ripped off and not the other way around.
Have you EVER lost an argument?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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P.S. got nothin to do w/kflex their game, their personality, view of life is very different, TN is too "black" for me to relate to. Im Russian - I don't care how hoodrat Lafaunda married some famous dude and is golddiggin like crazy etc.
Supreme in my opinion - his material transends nationality and sh!t u know.
 

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Cool man.

We all have to do and listen to what works for us.

Glad you're giving Tom's show a chance.

I gave Supreme's show a chance but he came off as too obnoxious for me so I stopped listening. Maybe you'll find a similar problem with Tom or something else to stop listening to him but the main point is at least you will of given his show a chance.
 

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Any links I'm too tired and lazy to search for them. Damn do I need a new computer.
 
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www.blowmeuptom.com

That should get you started, but if you do a quick Leykis search in iTunes, you'll find what you need.

Start with Leykis 101, and anything to do with finance and money.
 

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Leykis is the man. He won't beat around the bush and he'll tell it like it is. He'll break things down to such a level that you'll have yourself wondering why you ever thought it was a good idea in the first place. And he doesn't have any strategies or pickup lines, he just goes out there and does his thing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh and did I mention I'm listening to Tom right now...at the moment he's got the successful listeners calling in because he's sick of all the AFCs (he calls them pússies) who have been calling in since the first hour of the show. What Leykis has above your run-of-the-mill PUA is that he doesn't just deal with getting women, but also improving various aspects of your life. In addition to women he talks about finances, careers, education, politics, and social issues in general. Most of those things will ultimately lead to getting women but it sure makes that a lot easier when you have them figured out.
 
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