"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Apparently justiceseeker was right about you and that guy.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I UNDERSTAND Supreme, and can relate to him in many ways. When I started listening to his shows, it's as if I was listening to my own inner being.
HOWEVER, what I wrote above about your hero... is based on seeing a couple of pics of him, and listening to like 5 minutes of him talking about how you shouldn't be working at MikkyD's (surprize of the century right there).
SO,
perhaps my opinion will change cuz im planning to check out what else he has to say. Maybe I'm wrong and the man is saying some good sh!t, I'll listen to some Tom's shows.. Kontroller, do I click on that link on your sig or what?
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No instead you worship a guy with 80lb of fat on him who stole all his material from Tariq Nasheed.
At least Leykis is a self made man.
"I UNDERSTAND Supreme, and can relate to him in many ways. When I started listening to his shows, it's as if I was listening to my own inner being."
Which is why we listen to any kind of talk show or follow any kind of writer.
Yeah though Surpreme is a rip off of Tariq and probably ripped off of Tom as well to be honest since Tom has been doing his show practically since before most of us were born or at least since we were small children.
I don't know about you but I can't bring myself to player
hate on any guy that consistently pulls hot b!tches and
especially not a fat guy that pulls hot b!tches because its gotta be harder for them and whats amazing about Tom is he was pulling quality tail even before he got famous.
"SO, perhaps my opinion will change cuz im planning to check out what else he has to say. Maybe I'm wrong and the man is saying some good sh!t, I'll listen to some Tom's shows.. Kontroller, do I click on that link on your sig or what?"
Yep, just click away and subscribe.
Tom won't make you pay to hear his advice or use his website like Player Supreme does and if you hear anything thats familiar that you've heard from PS while listening to Tom's show remember it was Tom who got ripped off and not the other way around.
Have you EVER lost an argument?KontrollerX said:"At least I don't worship one of those know-it-all radio talking head wise guys, who also has extra 100lb of fat on him , half of which is distributed to his face."
No instead you worship a guy with 80lb of fat on him who stole all his material from Tariq Nasheed.
At least Leykis is a self made man.
"I UNDERSTAND Supreme, and can relate to him in many ways. When I started listening to his shows, it's as if I was listening to my own inner being."
Which is why we listen to any kind of talk show or follow any kind of writer.
Yeah though Surpreme is a rip off of Tariq and probably ripped off of Tom as well to be honest since Tom has been doing his show practically since before most of us were born or at least since we were small children.
I don't know about you but I can't bring myself to player
hate on any guy that consistently pulls hot b!tches and
especially not a fat guy that pulls hot b!tches because its gotta be harder for them and whats amazing about Tom is he was pulling quality tail even before he got famous.
"SO, perhaps my opinion will change cuz im planning to check out what else he has to say. Maybe I'm wrong and the man is saying some good sh!t, I'll listen to some Tom's shows.. Kontroller, do I click on that link on your sig or what?"
Yep, just click away and subscribe.
Tom won't make you pay to hear his advice or use his website like Player Supreme does and if you hear anything thats familiar that you've heard from PS while listening to Tom's show remember it was Tom who got ripped off and not the other way around.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Supreme in my opinion - his material transends nationality and sh!t u know.
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We all have to do and listen to what works for us.
Glad you're giving Tom's show a chance.
I gave Supreme's show a chance but he came off as too obnoxious for me so I stopped listening. Maybe you'll find a similar problem with Tom or something else to stop listening to him but the main point is at least you will of given his show a chance.
Rhoto
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That should get you started, but if you do a quick Leykis search in iTunes, you'll find what you need.
Start with Leykis 101, and anything to do with finance and money.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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