If you haven't already, you should see "The Girl Next Door". I don't know the name of the character, but he plays a porn producer/director that is trying to get Elisha Cuthbert's character to work for him again after she leaves porn. The dude with brown spiky hair to be more specific. He's got some funny lines and has a 'I'm on top of the world, f**k you' type attitude. He's a total assh**e but good with women. To me, this movie sucked except for the scenes he was in.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Best DJ movies!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Wow I read through almost all of this and I can not believe no one mentioned "Wedding Crashers". Not only is it like one of the funniest movies in a long while in my opinion its also a great DJ movie or PUA movie.
thederekeffect1
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Haven't seen it.
mistermarc
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Def Jam's "How to be a Player" !!!...except he got caught in the end kind of stupid!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
somewhatsuave
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Check out dazed and confused. Matthew Macon-a-something's character is a DJ for sure.Funny movie too
The Juan and only
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The character he portrayed may've been a good role model, however Tom Cruise himself is a fvcking d1ckhead, IMO.Toushi said:Top Gun. Tom Cruise is a good role-model. :'D
roman
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Legends of the Fall and Glengarry Glen Ross
The best example in my mind of an alpha male portrayed in film is the character Tristan in Legends of the Fall, played by Brad Pitt. He has only one ****y and funny line in the movie to my knowledge (when he's talking to his younger brother about fvcking), but he epitomizes what it is to be alpha. I wouldn't call him a PUA, but he is definitely a chick magnet in the movie. He's confident, independent, aggressive, and fearless. Most importantly, he does whatever he wants and doesn't apologize for his behavior.
Also pay close attention to Alec Baldwin's character Blake in Glengarry Glen Ross. He has "brass balls" in this movie. His philosophy for selling real estate that he explains in his only scene in the movie is exactly how DJs should be approaching picking up women. "ABC--always be closing." Watch his monologue before going out to the club to boost your morale. Haha.
The best example in my mind of an alpha male portrayed in film is the character Tristan in Legends of the Fall, played by Brad Pitt. He has only one ****y and funny line in the movie to my knowledge (when he's talking to his younger brother about fvcking), but he epitomizes what it is to be alpha. I wouldn't call him a PUA, but he is definitely a chick magnet in the movie. He's confident, independent, aggressive, and fearless. Most importantly, he does whatever he wants and doesn't apologize for his behavior.
Also pay close attention to Alec Baldwin's character Blake in Glengarry Glen Ross. He has "brass balls" in this movie. His philosophy for selling real estate that he explains in his only scene in the movie is exactly how DJs should be approaching picking up women. "ABC--always be closing." Watch his monologue before going out to the club to boost your morale. Haha.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Toushi said:Top Gun. Tom Cruise is a good role-model. :'D
Don Juan role models shouldn't come from a movie that is laced with homosexual undertones.
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he did manage to land kidman who was a foot taller than him, however.The Juan and only said:The character he portrayed may've been a good role model, however Tom Cruise himself is a fvcking d1ckhead, IMO.
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The Uncle from 'Roger Dodger'
Adam See said:Blow (2001) - Not so much for the women, but just for the character of the guy.
Why Blow man? He takes drugs, gets all caught up in doing imoral ****. Stoops low to provide for his daughter. I don't see where you are coming from... has no one seen DJ deMarco (J Depp)?
roman
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Don Juan De Marco
Yeah, I saw Don Juan De Marco just this month. It was nothing special. Johnny Depp plays a delusional 20 year old living in Queens, NY who thinks he's Don Juan and dresses in a black cape with a mask and all. He doesn't have any memorable scenes where he uses game to seduce women. I wouldn't waste my time with this one.
Yeah, I saw Don Juan De Marco just this month. It was nothing special. Johnny Depp plays a delusional 20 year old living in Queens, NY who thinks he's Don Juan and dresses in a black cape with a mask and all. He doesn't have any memorable scenes where he uses game to seduce women. I wouldn't waste my time with this one.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
:crackup: :crackup: I hope your not telling people to be that guy.somewhatsuave said:Check out dazed and confused. Matthew Macon-a-something's character is a DJ for sure.Funny movie too
I might suggest a little Guy Richie called Revolver to be added to the list.
In it, the main character realises that his inner voice, that had being guiding him throughout the film, is in fact his true enemy, it is what always makes him anxious in threatening situations and makes him flip on occassions. A scene in a elevator shows him ' fighting ' with his inner voice and winning. The final scene of the film ( after he overcomes his inner voice ) shows him in a threatening situation but he is not anxious at all anymore. I'm crap at explaining things but its worth seeing, for that alone, I think.
I also recently saw Fight Club, I won't say much as it will spoil the film. But the Brad's character is indeed a good one, one who doesn't give a F*** about anything and as well as encouraging to look at society in a different way. I don't like the whole ' giving up all hope ' ideal but I agree with the ' You are not specail! ' idea, though.
In it, the main character realises that his inner voice, that had being guiding him throughout the film, is in fact his true enemy, it is what always makes him anxious in threatening situations and makes him flip on occassions. A scene in a elevator shows him ' fighting ' with his inner voice and winning. The final scene of the film ( after he overcomes his inner voice ) shows him in a threatening situation but he is not anxious at all anymore. I'm crap at explaining things but its worth seeing, for that alone, I think.
I also recently saw Fight Club, I won't say much as it will spoil the film. But the Brad's character is indeed a good one, one who doesn't give a F*** about anything and as well as encouraging to look at society in a different way. I don't like the whole ' giving up all hope ' ideal but I agree with the ' You are not specail! ' idea, though.
Let's see... It all depends of what kind of a man or DJ you're trying to portray. My favorites are:
-Don Juan de Marco (quote: "I would say that he has a rather limited and uncreative way of looking at the situation. Look, you want to know if I understand that this is a mental hospital? Yes, I understand that, but then how can I say that you are Don Octavio and I am a guest at your villa? Correct?")
-Dr. Zhivago (I know, I know... Still, Omar Sharif kicks ass in that, he's a clear example of a "good guy with an attitude")
-Roger Dodger
-Ocean's Eleven (Pitt-Clooney combo, excellent convo, both are C&F to the T)
-Brilliant Mind (another "good guy with an attitude" example)
-An Officer and a Gentleman (Gere's got game, apparently all the chicks fall for his soapy "Autumn in New York" role as well)
That's a short list of what I have in mind for movies that can improve your character as well as your game.
-Don Juan de Marco (quote: "I would say that he has a rather limited and uncreative way of looking at the situation. Look, you want to know if I understand that this is a mental hospital? Yes, I understand that, but then how can I say that you are Don Octavio and I am a guest at your villa? Correct?")
-Dr. Zhivago (I know, I know... Still, Omar Sharif kicks ass in that, he's a clear example of a "good guy with an attitude")
-Roger Dodger
-Ocean's Eleven (Pitt-Clooney combo, excellent convo, both are C&F to the T)
-Brilliant Mind (another "good guy with an attitude" example)
-An Officer and a Gentleman (Gere's got game, apparently all the chicks fall for his soapy "Autumn in New York" role as well)
That's a short list of what I have in mind for movies that can improve your character as well as your game.
I think "Catch Me If You Can" is a good example as well. Especially the way how self-confident Leonardo DiCaprio handles women and also people in general. You can really see a development of his character and that finally it all comes down to how you present yourself...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.