TheGambino
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Guys what are the best movies which show a real casanova, DJ, womanizer at work. Like Don Juan Demarco, James Bond and go on...
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Best DJ movies
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mr Wright
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Vicky Cristina Barcelona, is a must watch it!
I'd say Tyler Durden has a good template to follow in Fight Club...actually Brad Pitt in a lot of his films. In Troy his attitude and body language was dead on.
Hank Moody in Californication(tv show) but the guy has amazing body language and general mindset. Probably the only character I've ever seen on TV and thought that the writer knew exactly what they were doing so much so I often think "what would Hank do?"
Daniel Craig in Layer Cake, phoar man crushing
Have also seen Rodger Dodger recommended, still yet to see it.
I'd say Tyler Durden has a good template to follow in Fight Club...actually Brad Pitt in a lot of his films. In Troy his attitude and body language was dead on.
Hank Moody in Californication(tv show) but the guy has amazing body language and general mindset. Probably the only character I've ever seen on TV and thought that the writer knew exactly what they were doing so much so I often think "what would Hank do?"
Daniel Craig in Layer Cake, phoar man crushing
Have also seen Rodger Dodger recommended, still yet to see it.
TheGambino
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Vicky Cristina Barcelona, heard that one before. going to download it now
VladPatton
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I second Hank Moody. That character is the shiznit!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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DonJuanit0
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Hank Moody, "Californication" is a definite yes! "Roger doger" is great as well, "Swingers" is a nice movie especially after a break up. "Hitch".
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Cruel In ten tions.
I know it's an old one, but the main character was a smooth, confident mofo.
I know it's an old one, but the main character was a smooth, confident mofo.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Hitch" and "Wedding Crashers" could have been great movies but they got neutered by Hollywood. I bet the original versions of the scripts were great before they went into the pablum machine. I highly doubt you will ever see a movie that addresses game accurately. The characters will always be portrayed as *******s or being misguided or something.
Just off the top of my head, I'd ditto "Fight Club" and maybe throw "Wanted" on the list. Both are really fun movies, too.
Just off the top of my head, I'd ditto "Fight Club" and maybe throw "Wanted" on the list. Both are really fun movies, too.
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American Psycho and Fight Club are both great movies and also inspirational.
The main character of the show Dexter also is alpha as fvck, in a different way.
I said his character, not the plot of the show. Don't even bother watching after season 2.
Patrick Bateman (American Psycho) and Dexter are perfect examples of the dark triad personality traits that make women wet.
Dexter is kind of soft when it comes to women, but he also isn't out chasing them.
Don_Dom is right about Wedding Crashers. It's a good movie that got fvked up to appeal and not offend.
The main character of the show Dexter also is alpha as fvck, in a different way.
I said his character, not the plot of the show. Don't even bother watching after season 2.
Patrick Bateman (American Psycho) and Dexter are perfect examples of the dark triad personality traits that make women wet.
Dexter is kind of soft when it comes to women, but he also isn't out chasing them.
Don_Dom is right about Wedding Crashers. It's a good movie that got fvked up to appeal and not offend.
Vantagepoint34
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The main character in Scrubs
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WC2
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I've always felt like I was a blend of Hank Moody and Brad Pitt.. Hank Moody for his spontaneity, and typically just being the funnest guy in the room. And Pitt for his physical movements (the way Pitt moves is confidence to a tee).
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Tom Crusie - Top Gun
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.