TheGambino
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Guys what are the best movies which show a real casanova, DJ, womanizer at work. Like Don Juan Demarco, James Bond and go on...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Best DJ movies
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mr Wright
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Vicky Cristina Barcelona, is a must watch it!
I'd say Tyler Durden has a good template to follow in Fight Club...actually Brad Pitt in a lot of his films. In Troy his attitude and body language was dead on.
Hank Moody in Californication(tv show) but the guy has amazing body language and general mindset. Probably the only character I've ever seen on TV and thought that the writer knew exactly what they were doing so much so I often think "what would Hank do?"
Daniel Craig in Layer Cake, phoar man crushing
Have also seen Rodger Dodger recommended, still yet to see it.
I'd say Tyler Durden has a good template to follow in Fight Club...actually Brad Pitt in a lot of his films. In Troy his attitude and body language was dead on.
Hank Moody in Californication(tv show) but the guy has amazing body language and general mindset. Probably the only character I've ever seen on TV and thought that the writer knew exactly what they were doing so much so I often think "what would Hank do?"
Daniel Craig in Layer Cake, phoar man crushing
Have also seen Rodger Dodger recommended, still yet to see it.
TheGambino
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Vicky Cristina Barcelona, heard that one before. going to download it now
VladPatton
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I second Hank Moody. That character is the shiznit!
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The surgeon from nip tuck
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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DonJuanit0
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Hank Moody, "Californication" is a definite yes! "Roger doger" is great as well, "Swingers" is a nice movie especially after a break up. "Hitch".
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Cruel In ten tions.
I know it's an old one, but the main character was a smooth, confident mofo.
I know it's an old one, but the main character was a smooth, confident mofo.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"Hitch" and "Wedding Crashers" could have been great movies but they got neutered by Hollywood. I bet the original versions of the scripts were great before they went into the pablum machine. I highly doubt you will ever see a movie that addresses game accurately. The characters will always be portrayed as *******s or being misguided or something.
Just off the top of my head, I'd ditto "Fight Club" and maybe throw "Wanted" on the list. Both are really fun movies, too.
Just off the top of my head, I'd ditto "Fight Club" and maybe throw "Wanted" on the list. Both are really fun movies, too.
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American Psycho and Fight Club are both great movies and also inspirational.
The main character of the show Dexter also is alpha as fvck, in a different way.
I said his character, not the plot of the show. Don't even bother watching after season 2.
Patrick Bateman (American Psycho) and Dexter are perfect examples of the dark triad personality traits that make women wet.
Dexter is kind of soft when it comes to women, but he also isn't out chasing them.
Don_Dom is right about Wedding Crashers. It's a good movie that got fvked up to appeal and not offend.
The main character of the show Dexter also is alpha as fvck, in a different way.
I said his character, not the plot of the show. Don't even bother watching after season 2.
Patrick Bateman (American Psycho) and Dexter are perfect examples of the dark triad personality traits that make women wet.
Dexter is kind of soft when it comes to women, but he also isn't out chasing them.
Don_Dom is right about Wedding Crashers. It's a good movie that got fvked up to appeal and not offend.
Vantagepoint34
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The main character in Scrubs
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WC2
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I've always felt like I was a blend of Hank Moody and Brad Pitt.. Hank Moody for his spontaneity, and typically just being the funnest guy in the room. And Pitt for his physical movements (the way Pitt moves is confidence to a tee).
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Tom Crusie - Top Gun
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.