"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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best date idea ever: salsa dancing!!!

suaveplayer

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hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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search1ng

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Is Salsa really all it's cracked up to be? I've got a chance to start taking lessons and the classes are filled with women with almost no males.

Does it help dancing in general? In clubs?
 

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it probably doesn't help too much with club dancing. my waltz classes didn't but i'm sure it will build confidence in carrying yourself. maybe you won't be as scared to bust a move since your so used to doing it.
 

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yeah this is a great idea. dancing in general increases a girl's interest level by leaps and bounds. then all you have to do is close.
 
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suaveplayer said:
hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
Personally I can vouch for this... After a year of so of salsa I can say this: When you can salsa and you do salsa pretty often (like weekly of bi-weekly) you get more nooky.

COURSE, you need basic skills still. Can't game salsa chicks or bring your own chick if you can't hold a conversation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One more note here (wow I haven't been here in a while) girls/women correlate dancing to sex. Self explanatory for anyone with an 8th grade vocabulary.
 

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I've been learning both salsa and tango and in both cases the ratio of women to men is consistently 60/40. That alone makes it a great environment.



suaveplayer said:
hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
 
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davewe said:
I've been learning both salsa and tango and in both cases the ratio of women to men is consistently 60/40. That alone makes it a great environment.
There's always more women than men at these things. Women love to dance more than men.
 

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"Dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire" I think that was George Bernard Shaw.
 

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Salsa or dancing is a great social skill for any DJ!
I'm now getting back to salsa, and it's been a blast.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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