"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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best date idea ever: salsa dancing!!!

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hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is Salsa really all it's cracked up to be? I've got a chance to start taking lessons and the classes are filled with women with almost no males.

Does it help dancing in general? In clubs?
 

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it probably doesn't help too much with club dancing. my waltz classes didn't but i'm sure it will build confidence in carrying yourself. maybe you won't be as scared to bust a move since your so used to doing it.
 

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yeah this is a great idea. dancing in general increases a girl's interest level by leaps and bounds. then all you have to do is close.
 
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suaveplayer said:
hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
Personally I can vouch for this... After a year of so of salsa I can say this: When you can salsa and you do salsa pretty often (like weekly of bi-weekly) you get more nooky.

COURSE, you need basic skills still. Can't game salsa chicks or bring your own chick if you can't hold a conversation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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One more note here (wow I haven't been here in a while) girls/women correlate dancing to sex. Self explanatory for anyone with an 8th grade vocabulary.
 

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I've been learning both salsa and tango and in both cases the ratio of women to men is consistently 60/40. That alone makes it a great environment.



suaveplayer said:
hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
 
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davewe said:
I've been learning both salsa and tango and in both cases the ratio of women to men is consistently 60/40. That alone makes it a great environment.
There's always more women than men at these things. Women love to dance more than men.
 

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"Dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire" I think that was George Bernard Shaw.
 

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Salsa or dancing is a great social skill for any DJ!
I'm now getting back to salsa, and it's been a blast.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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