"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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best date idea ever: salsa dancing!!!

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hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is Salsa really all it's cracked up to be? I've got a chance to start taking lessons and the classes are filled with women with almost no males.

Does it help dancing in general? In clubs?
 

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it probably doesn't help too much with club dancing. my waltz classes didn't but i'm sure it will build confidence in carrying yourself. maybe you won't be as scared to bust a move since your so used to doing it.
 

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yeah this is a great idea. dancing in general increases a girl's interest level by leaps and bounds. then all you have to do is close.
 
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suaveplayer said:
hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
Personally I can vouch for this... After a year of so of salsa I can say this: When you can salsa and you do salsa pretty often (like weekly of bi-weekly) you get more nooky.

COURSE, you need basic skills still. Can't game salsa chicks or bring your own chick if you can't hold a conversation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One more note here (wow I haven't been here in a while) girls/women correlate dancing to sex. Self explanatory for anyone with an 8th grade vocabulary.
 

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I've been learning both salsa and tango and in both cases the ratio of women to men is consistently 60/40. That alone makes it a great environment.



suaveplayer said:
hey guys went on this date with a chick, it was kinda our first date. i took her salsa dancing. and it turned out awesome! we both had so much fun and the kino opportunities were ENDLESS! the dance itself has a sexual vibe and both of us could feel it and the sexuality was there the whole night but not in an awkward way. and then we could always cool down a bit and chat over a drink. give it a try guys! it automatically tells the girls that ur different, fun, sexy, and a leader!
 
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davewe said:
I've been learning both salsa and tango and in both cases the ratio of women to men is consistently 60/40. That alone makes it a great environment.
There's always more women than men at these things. Women love to dance more than men.
 

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"Dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire" I think that was George Bernard Shaw.
 

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Salsa or dancing is a great social skill for any DJ!
I'm now getting back to salsa, and it's been a blast.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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