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What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
Ok, so you are not concerned with women desiring you because of your coca cola packet????? Ok, well, tell us what you do for a living?
 

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What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
LA is not a sh!thole, but it's very fake and you need a lot of $$$. I'd say NYC, but it ain't cheap either. The best part of large cities is the ability to meet up at free public events and keep costs down. Add in a cup of coffee (you can buy discounted starbucks gift cards on eBay or raise.com and it doesn't make you look cheap.
 
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LA is not a sh!thole, but it's very fake and you need a lot of $$$. I'd say NYC, but it ain't cheap either. The best part of large cities is the ability to meet up at free public events and keep costs down. Add in a cup of coffee (you can buy discounted starbucks gift cards on eBay or raise.com and it doesn't make you look cheap.
It's all relative.

I've been to New York, San Francisco and DC. I thought the people were timid, for the most part, though standoffish. Too stuck in their own bubbles.

Your best bet, in my opinion, is college towns.
 
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Tempe, Phoenix, Austin, Tallahassee, Athens

But that's just related to money going far and getting laid.

If you want to make a lot of money, those aren't necessarily the places to be.
 

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It's all relative.

I've been to New York, San Francisco and DC. I thought the people were timid, for the most part, though standoffish. Too stuck in their own bubbles.

Your best bet, in my opinion, is college towns.
Dallas TX & San Antonio TX come to mind. Honorable mention to Phoenix AZ.
 
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Or a northwest college town. I'd probably choose the northwest, personally.
 

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Anyhow if u r projecting ur own dismal experiences with life and expecting others like OP to copy paste it to theirs, that would be sad.

Perhaps it is you who should cut that out.
Spaz, you are embarrassing yourself again with your asinine posts, much like you did when you passionately defended child rapists just a few weeks ago. Luckily I'm a very happy and contented person; your angry outbursts are like Cap'n Crunch Berries to me. I love haters because they wallow in their misery while I glide along in ecstasy.

Nobody here takes seriously your doddering senile babble. Most of us choose to do things because we want to do them, not because we're worried about whether other people approve, least of all a pederast KJ who's afraid to leave his tiny bubble. That is where you "thrive." I think you will continue to do well there.

Be advised that any further continuance of this dialogue on your part will be deemed supplication by you to me, henceforth and forever after in the known universe.

Gentlemen, I say this for all of you: To thine own self be true.
 

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Spaz, you are embarrassing yourself again with your asinine posts, much like you did when you passionately defended child rapists just a few weeks ago. Luckily I'm a very happy and contented person; your angry outbursts are like Cap'n Crunch Berries to me. I love haters because they wallow in their misery while I glide along in ecstasy.

Nobody here takes seriously your doddering senile babble. Most of us choose to do things because we want to do them, not because we're worried about whether other people approve, least of all a pederast KJ who's afraid to leave his tiny bubble. That is where you "thrive." I think you will continue to do well there.

Be advised that any further continuance of this dialogue on your part will be deemed supplication by you to me, henceforth and forever after in the known universe.

Gentlemen, I say this for all of you: To thine own self be true.
Either u r that desperate or simply just too emotional with my post here to link what I brought up there as defending a rapist.

Anyhow, I don't care one way or the other.

The truth right now is that u r being this way because I've hit a raw nerve.

Next time don't bring forth ur own insecurities and try to influence others just because you can't do it in life.

You wish to bring other men to ur level?

Phulease....
 
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Either u r that desperate or simply just too emotional with my post here to link what I brought up there as defending a rapist.

Anyhow, I don't care one way or the other.

The truth right now is that u r being this way because I've hit a raw nerve.

Next time don't bring forth ur own insecurities and try to influence others just because you can't do it in life.

You wish to bring other men to ur level?

Phulease....
You started this, miss.
 

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I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
What makes LA such a bad place?

What other places are beautiful?
 
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What makes LA such a bad place?

What other places are beautiful?
Places with less commute time and more nature?

I think everyone would be happier if they spent more time in the woods. Especially you, Trump. Maybe meet some people that have more on their mind than getting laid.
 

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Either u r that desperate or simply just too emotional blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
 
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It's what he does. Obsession and envy.
No, I think he took offense to your "stock cliches" comment, and attacked you based on what you'd said in the past.

He has a fragile ego. No harm meant.
 

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@samspade, by modifying my post, it goes to show ur frame is so brittle that you're even lowered urself to equal that of a 10 year old boy......

Now do you understand why i said what I said about you?

Even an idiot could figure that one out.
 

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No, I think he took offense to your "stock cliches" comment, and attacked you based on what you'd said in the past.

He has a fragile ego. No harm meant.
I know you enjoy ur delusions but phulease can you at least make it more exciting for me?
 

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@samspade, by modifying my post, it goes to show ur frame is so brittle that you're even lowered urself to equal that of a 10 year old boy......

Now do you understand why i said what I said about you?

Even an idiot could figure that one out.
There you go again...
 

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What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
South Florida all day long. It's too easy here. I lived in LA most my life and I can tell you, it's not even close.
 
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