Best city for good looking guy with average income

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What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
 
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What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
In most situation finding women should not be a factor to consider when you are thinking of moving.

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What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
LA is a very big city. If your not doing good with women there, moving somewhere else isnt going to fix your problem.
 
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Guys, go back and read the post before vomiting out your stock Sosuave cliches.

OP said he does well with women but wants to move to a nicer city because LA is garbage.

He didn't say he was moving for women, or that he's not pulling them, or that he blames LA for romantic issues, which he did not claim to have anyway.

He's asking for recs for cities as a young guy with modest income.
 

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Guys, go back and read the post before vomiting out your stock Sosuave cliches.

OP said he does well with women but wants to move to a nicer city because LA is garbage.

He didn't say he was moving for women, or that he's not pulling them, or that he blames LA for romantic issues, which he did not claim to have anyway.

He's asking for recs for cities as a young guy with modest income.
Title says differently.

Imo chose city for work not for women specially when younger.
 

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Title says differently.

Imo chose city for work not for women specially when younger.
That is your inference...the title mentions nothing about women.
 

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That is your inference...the title mentions nothing about women.
Holy **** you are right possible title was edited?

Anyway either way my recommendation is find a place where you can make lots of $$ even of its a **** hole, you can move with your pocket full when you are older.
The older you get, the harder pursuing good professional job and the harder it is to.move also.
 

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Holy **** you are right possible title was edited?
That I don't know...I joined in progress. Maybe he edited his post.
 
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Guys, go back and read the post before vomiting out your stock Sosuave cliches.

OP said he does well with women but wants to move to a nicer city because LA is garbage.

He didn't say he was moving for women, or that he's not pulling them, or that he blames LA for romantic issues, which he did not claim to have anyway.

He's asking for recs for cities as a young guy with modest income.
You're biased and so am I.

The difference between us is that any where I go I thrive while you left not only ur city but ur country because you didn't.

Ain't my fault that you can't.

Ain't my fault that I can.

Of course I'm teaching OP to surpass his limits.....
 

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You're biased and so am I.

The difference between us is that any where I go I thrive while you left not only ur city but ur country because you didn't.

Ain't my fault that you can't.

Ain't my fault that I can.

Of course I'm teaching OP to surpass his limits.....
I didn't start this thread and I don't care if anyone moves or not. Cut that out.
 
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People not in LA are trying to move there and people there are trying to move out. Unless the mafia is after you, it’s not going to be much different elsewhere.

When you move you’re going to love it for awhile. And then look back and regret not living up to the challenges your environment provided.

But that’s okay because your new place has its own set up challenges. Perfectly suited to chisel you.

You can’t escape life chiseling you. As a man that’s your curse.

There is no escape. No exit strategy. Life will either be heaven or hell depending on what you make of it.

You can be an alchemist and turn sh1t into gold or gold into sh1t.

Remember your mindset follows you wherever you go.
 

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That is your inference...the title mentions nothing about women.
In the post he mentions he does well with women, obviously it's a significant consideration.

Also, we have known Captain for a long time, I mean we have all posted here for years. We know what he is into.
 
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In the post he mentions he does well with women, obviously it's a significant consideration.

Also, we have known Captain for a long time, I mean we have all posted here for years. We know what he is into.
I don't know him. But if he mentions he does well with women, to me it sounds like that's not an issue or criterion. Eye of the beholder I guess.

There are just a lot of stock answers to threads on Sosuave that don't pass the logic test. E.g. every place is the same, just work on you and your attitude. I'm all for self-improvement and positive attitudes. But if the OP were trying to move from Syria to Seattle, people would tell him it's all the same. Of course. That's why the world laughs at Bob Dylan; he just couldn't hack life in Minnesota. To say nothing of your navy volunteers. Everybody's different, some people stay in one place their whole lives and good for them if that's what's in their hearts.

OP wants to move, he made that part clear. He didn't ask for spiritual help. There's some intellectual dishonesty on SoSuave sometimes. Personally I think LA is kind of a dump overall, but I'd take it over Fargo.
 

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I don't know him. But if he mentions he does well with women, to me it sounds like that's not an issue or criterion. Eye of the beholder I guess.

There are just a lot of stock answers to threads on Sosuave that don't pass the logic test. E.g. every place is the same, just work on you and your attitude. I'm all for self-improvement and positive attitudes. But if the OP were trying to move from Syria to Seattle, people would tell him it's all the same. Of course. That's why the world laughs at Bob Dylan; he just couldn't hack life in Minnesota. To say nothing of your navy volunteers. Everybody's different, some people stay in one place their whole lives and good for them if that's what's in their hearts.

OP wants to move, he made that part clear. He didn't ask for spiritual help. There's some intellectual dishonesty on SoSuave sometimes. Personally I think LA is kind of a dump overall, but I'd take it over Fargo.
It’s the intent that matters. Instead of challenging himself to make more money he wants to go somewhere where he would be considered not average. Well it doesn’t work that way. There is something called an economy. Some places don’t have the prices of LA but they don’t have the jobs either.

I actually know a guy like him. Moves out of California and left his 200k a year job for a smaller city and more modest income. He still complains about the cost of living. Unfortunately no one in his new city wants to pay him 200k to do the same job.

And now he wants to go back because at least Cali has the lights and glamour.
 

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What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
You should go to the city where you would earn more than average guy. Better to reign in Hell than to serve in Heaven.
 

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It’s the intent that matters. Instead of challenging himself to make more money he wants to go somewhere where he would be considered not average. Well it doesn’t work that way. There is something called an economy. Some places don’t have the prices of LA but they don’t have the jobs either.

I actually know a guy like him. Moves out of California and left his 200k a year job for a smaller city and more modest income. He still complains about the cost of living. Unfortunately no one in his new city wants to pay him 200k to do the same job.

And now he wants to go back because at least Cali has the lights and glamour.
That's a fair point. It sounded to me like he hated LA. Maybe we're all reading into it how we want. I know that priorities change, and quality of life matters (which again is relative). I moved and I technically make less now, but I have a lot more and live a lot better. Am much happier. But it was simply because my priorities changed. I wouldn't move back for double my old salary.
 

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That's a fair point. It sounded to me like he hated LA. Maybe we're all reading into it how we want. I know that priorities change, and quality of life matters (which again is relative). I moved and I technically make less now, but I have a lot more and live a lot better. Am much happier. But it was simply because my priorities changed. I wouldn't move back for double my old salary.
that is the thing, most citys are the same, only change is maybe one ahve a higher number of buildings, but where I live its close to several small town to medium and to the biggest city in my country a hour of car, thing is saving for maybe a fancy building in a noble zone or a better transport system, the diferences are minimum.

only time I question if I should move is when the traffic gets bad, since it was not this bad about 5 years ago, but that is more logistic for me, in the end the cahnges are minimum.

then we come to the main problem, he want to change because woman, and that is never a reason, plus the place is subjetive, some people would love LA some hate, its all about how well you live and waht you preceive as good.

I know US people tend to not create roots till they settle, parents and family in general is not something you guys like to stay close, but changing a city should be based on job and what kind of work you want to do, a high tech job would be easier to land in a big city when in a small it could be non existant, so before he ask anything, he should search for jobs he want to do, and see if they will ahve then, then ask what city town would be better or if he should stay.

note I never would consider woman as a good thing to move or based in any reason for moving
 
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