"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Best cities to date for 40-50 yr old age range?

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I can transfer anywhere with my job since I am going nuts living in Columbus.Nice town but too many college kids.
Maybe thinking of moving to NYC, Chicago or Tampa. I want to date more in my age range of 40-50 year olds.
I hear NYC, Chicago, and Tampa is more age diverse and have many singles.

Anyone live in those cities? Give me an update on the social scene.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude, you're 45ish and need help meeting women who are 45ish?? I was just hitting on a 19 year old HB9 beauty queen and I'm 46. Stay where you are, start making organic salsa and beef stew from grass fed, organic beef, and hire a physical trainer. Then you can date girls in your town half your age instead. But of the 3 cities listed (spent at least one night in all 3, living in NYC): Tampa.
 
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Delusioneil is correct the majority of people 30-40 in NYC don't speak English as their first language. If anyone disagrees they are a black woman on welfare.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's your point?
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My point is the reality that I once walked through queens and saw 200 people and only 6 were white (our tax dollars at work). I ended up dating one of the 6 (a Russian girl). Hillary hoped to nuke them to prevent this from ever happening again.
 
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I once walked through Chinatown in NYC and concluded everyone in NYC is Chinese. Hillary tried to c0ckblock me when I dated white chicks to prevent the further advancement of the white race.
 
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9Volt said:
Point being anyone in NYC between 30-40 age range doesn't speak English as their first language. If you disagree you're a black woman on welfare.
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That's rediculous and false.

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My point is the reality that I once walked through queens and saw 200 people and only 6 were white (our tax dollars at work). I ended up dating one of the 6 (a Russian girl). Hillary hoped to nuke them to prevent this from ever happening again.
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Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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EyeBRollin said:
That's rediculous and false.



Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
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Not on Queens Boulevard in Sunnyside at 5PM there isn't. Granted, they are on their way back to New Jersey, but still.
 
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EyeBRollin said:
That's rediculous and false.



Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
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Anyone white in NYC is from NJ. All the whites leave at 5pm after work.

I once walked through Brooklyn and only saw black people except for one white stripper beauty queen. She told me she loved me and I dated her till she wanted to have my children.
 
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9Volt said:
Anyone white in NYC is from NJ. All the whites leave at 5pm after work.

I once walked through Brooklyn and only saw black people except for one white stripper beauty queen. She told me she loved me and I dated her till she wanted to have my children.
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you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. There are plenty of white people in every borough except the Bronx. Outside of Hoboken, Northern NJ is similar to NYC demographically.
 
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you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. There are plenty of white people in every borough except the Bronx. Outside of Hoboken, Northern NJ is similar to NYC demographically.
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There are no white people in NYC. Anyone living in NYC speaks English as a second language. You disagree because you're a black woman on welfare.
 
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Boy this thread went sideways. Anyway...here's a list of places you might consider:

Orange County, CA
Scottsdale, AZ
Austin, TX
Minneapolis St. Paul, MN

I'm in your age range and quite social so I follow where the cool scene is for this age group. I actually think the greater LA area is also good, but you need to be upper eschelon to have success in more expensive areas. California and Scottsdale are not cheap, (CA is higher than AZ).

The other nice thing is the women in the above locales are typically thinner & prettier than what you have in OH. And there are lots of things to do year round outdoors.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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EyeBRollin said:
You clearly have never been to Manhattan, Brooklyn, Staten Island, or Astoria Queens
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NYC only consists of people that speak English as a second language. I've had a poll professionally conducted online. your opinion means nothing to professional online polls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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