"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best cities to date for 40-50 yr old age range?

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I can transfer anywhere with my job since I am going nuts living in Columbus.Nice town but too many college kids.
Maybe thinking of moving to NYC, Chicago or Tampa. I want to date more in my age range of 40-50 year olds.
I hear NYC, Chicago, and Tampa is more age diverse and have many singles.

Anyone live in those cities? Give me an update on the social scene.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, you're 45ish and need help meeting women who are 45ish?? I was just hitting on a 19 year old HB9 beauty queen and I'm 46. Stay where you are, start making organic salsa and beef stew from grass fed, organic beef, and hire a physical trainer. Then you can date girls in your town half your age instead. But of the 3 cities listed (spent at least one night in all 3, living in NYC): Tampa.
 
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Delusioneil is correct the majority of people 30-40 in NYC don't speak English as their first language. If anyone disagrees they are a black woman on welfare.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EyeBRollin said:
What's your point?
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My point is the reality that I once walked through queens and saw 200 people and only 6 were white (our tax dollars at work). I ended up dating one of the 6 (a Russian girl). Hillary hoped to nuke them to prevent this from ever happening again.
 
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I once walked through Chinatown in NYC and concluded everyone in NYC is Chinese. Hillary tried to c0ckblock me when I dated white chicks to prevent the further advancement of the white race.
 
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9Volt said:
Point being anyone in NYC between 30-40 age range doesn't speak English as their first language. If you disagree you're a black woman on welfare.
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That's rediculous and false.

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My point is the reality that I once walked through queens and saw 200 people and only 6 were white (our tax dollars at work). I ended up dating one of the 6 (a Russian girl). Hillary hoped to nuke them to prevent this from ever happening again.
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Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeBRollin said:
That's rediculous and false.



Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
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Not on Queens Boulevard in Sunnyside at 5PM there isn't. Granted, they are on their way back to New Jersey, but still.
 
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EyeBRollin said:
That's rediculous and false.



Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
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Anyone white in NYC is from NJ. All the whites leave at 5pm after work.

I once walked through Brooklyn and only saw black people except for one white stripper beauty queen. She told me she loved me and I dated her till she wanted to have my children.
 
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9Volt said:
Anyone white in NYC is from NJ. All the whites leave at 5pm after work.

I once walked through Brooklyn and only saw black people except for one white stripper beauty queen. She told me she loved me and I dated her till she wanted to have my children.
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you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. There are plenty of white people in every borough except the Bronx. Outside of Hoboken, Northern NJ is similar to NYC demographically.
 
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you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. There are plenty of white people in every borough except the Bronx. Outside of Hoboken, Northern NJ is similar to NYC demographically.
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There are no white people in NYC. Anyone living in NYC speaks English as a second language. You disagree because you're a black woman on welfare.
 
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Boy this thread went sideways. Anyway...here's a list of places you might consider:

Orange County, CA
Scottsdale, AZ
Austin, TX
Minneapolis St. Paul, MN

I'm in your age range and quite social so I follow where the cool scene is for this age group. I actually think the greater LA area is also good, but you need to be upper eschelon to have success in more expensive areas. California and Scottsdale are not cheap, (CA is higher than AZ).

The other nice thing is the women in the above locales are typically thinner & prettier than what you have in OH. And there are lots of things to do year round outdoors.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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EyeBRollin said:
You clearly have never been to Manhattan, Brooklyn, Staten Island, or Astoria Queens
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NYC only consists of people that speak English as a second language. I've had a poll professionally conducted online. your opinion means nothing to professional online polls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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