"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best cities to date for 40-50 yr old age range?

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I can transfer anywhere with my job since I am going nuts living in Columbus.Nice town but too many college kids.
Maybe thinking of moving to NYC, Chicago or Tampa. I want to date more in my age range of 40-50 year olds.
I hear NYC, Chicago, and Tampa is more age diverse and have many singles.

Anyone live in those cities? Give me an update on the social scene.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, you're 45ish and need help meeting women who are 45ish?? I was just hitting on a 19 year old HB9 beauty queen and I'm 46. Stay where you are, start making organic salsa and beef stew from grass fed, organic beef, and hire a physical trainer. Then you can date girls in your town half your age instead. But of the 3 cities listed (spent at least one night in all 3, living in NYC): Tampa.
 
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Delusioneil is correct the majority of people 30-40 in NYC don't speak English as their first language. If anyone disagrees they are a black woman on welfare.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's your point?
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My point is the reality that I once walked through queens and saw 200 people and only 6 were white (our tax dollars at work). I ended up dating one of the 6 (a Russian girl). Hillary hoped to nuke them to prevent this from ever happening again.
 
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I once walked through Chinatown in NYC and concluded everyone in NYC is Chinese. Hillary tried to c0ckblock me when I dated white chicks to prevent the further advancement of the white race.
 
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9Volt said:
Point being anyone in NYC between 30-40 age range doesn't speak English as their first language. If you disagree you're a black woman on welfare.
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That's rediculous and false.

bigneil said:
My point is the reality that I once walked through queens and saw 200 people and only 6 were white (our tax dollars at work). I ended up dating one of the 6 (a Russian girl). Hillary hoped to nuke them to prevent this from ever happening again.
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Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EyeBRollin said:
That's rediculous and false.



Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
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Not on Queens Boulevard in Sunnyside at 5PM there isn't. Granted, they are on their way back to New Jersey, but still.
 
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EyeBRollin said:
That's rediculous and false.



Hmmm that's odd. There's more white people in NYC than any other group, even though it is a plurality. Bigger question is what this has to do with the OP? He asked for cities with a lot of singles. There's none better than NYC
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Anyone white in NYC is from NJ. All the whites leave at 5pm after work.

I once walked through Brooklyn and only saw black people except for one white stripper beauty queen. She told me she loved me and I dated her till she wanted to have my children.
 
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9Volt said:
Anyone white in NYC is from NJ. All the whites leave at 5pm after work.

I once walked through Brooklyn and only saw black people except for one white stripper beauty queen. She told me she loved me and I dated her till she wanted to have my children.
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you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. There are plenty of white people in every borough except the Bronx. Outside of Hoboken, Northern NJ is similar to NYC demographically.
 
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you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. There are plenty of white people in every borough except the Bronx. Outside of Hoboken, Northern NJ is similar to NYC demographically.
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There are no white people in NYC. Anyone living in NYC speaks English as a second language. You disagree because you're a black woman on welfare.
 
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Boy this thread went sideways. Anyway...here's a list of places you might consider:

Orange County, CA
Scottsdale, AZ
Austin, TX
Minneapolis St. Paul, MN

I'm in your age range and quite social so I follow where the cool scene is for this age group. I actually think the greater LA area is also good, but you need to be upper eschelon to have success in more expensive areas. California and Scottsdale are not cheap, (CA is higher than AZ).

The other nice thing is the women in the above locales are typically thinner & prettier than what you have in OH. And there are lots of things to do year round outdoors.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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EyeBRollin said:
You clearly have never been to Manhattan, Brooklyn, Staten Island, or Astoria Queens
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NYC only consists of people that speak English as a second language. I've had a poll professionally conducted online. your opinion means nothing to professional online polls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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