You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't know how you can justify this as something a MAN wouldn't do. Put yourself in the guy's shoes. You've been dating a girl for FIVE YEARS. You've invested time, money, love, energy, etc. You're getting ready to commit to her exclusively for life. Until you die. Then you find out she's been f'ing around with some guy named Eric. You really want to let her off easy? Imagine the extent of your anger. She essentially wasted five years of your life. Five years that could have been spent meeting more worthy women. Also keep in mind this wasn't some floozie he was seeing for a month or two. If that was the case, I could see this being a little harsh/unnecessary. As is, I applaud the guy's actions and hope he finds someone who treats him better.Upside said:There is no excuse for cheating, but is this something that a MAN would do? Probably not. The build up was funny but when the chick really started to break down into tears I found it kind of sad. Sure she did deserve it in a sense and her crying may have well been a way for her to victimize herself and make the radio jocks look like *******s, but at the end of the day the dude should have just dumped her ass in private.