"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Best. Breakup. Ever.
- Thread starter Jhcl4000
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
JabberWalkie
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I would just move on. There is enough pain in this world, we don't need to create more.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
Lol!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
There is no excuse for cheating, but is this something that a MAN would do? Probably not. The build up was funny but when the chick really started to break down into tears I found it kind of sad. Sure she did deserve it in a sense and her crying may have well been a way for her to victimize herself and make the radio jocks look like *******s, but at the end of the day the dude should have just dumped her ass in private.
JabberWalkie
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To Upside:
I agree 100%. This is something a spiteful child would do.
I agree 100%. This is something a spiteful child would do.
Rescue Mission
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b1tches need to be taught lessons on what happens when they are not acting like the ladies that we except them to be - the more b1tches that get embarrassed for their wrong doing, the more likely they will change for the better
CTApprentice
Don Juan
Can someone give me cliffs?
I can't listen to it, unfortunately I still live in the internet stoneage? (ahem..dial-up)
I can't listen to it, unfortunately I still live in the internet stoneage? (ahem..dial-up)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
JackRyanJuan
Don Juan
I don't know how you can justify this as something a MAN wouldn't do. Put yourself in the guy's shoes. You've been dating a girl for FIVE YEARS. You've invested time, money, love, energy, etc. You're getting ready to commit to her exclusively for life. Until you die. Then you find out she's been f'ing around with some guy named Eric. You really want to let her off easy? Imagine the extent of your anger. She essentially wasted five years of your life. Five years that could have been spent meeting more worthy women. Also keep in mind this wasn't some floozie he was seeing for a month or two. If that was the case, I could see this being a little harsh/unnecessary. As is, I applaud the guy's actions and hope he finds someone who treats him better.Upside said:There is no excuse for cheating, but is this something that a MAN would do? Probably not. The build up was funny but when the chick really started to break down into tears I found it kind of sad. Sure she did deserve it in a sense and her crying may have well been a way for her to victimize herself and make the radio jocks look like *******s, but at the end of the day the dude should have just dumped her ass in private.