"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best Book and/or Video Technique Learning

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What's the best book to buy to learn the seduction/attraction-building/opener techniques?

Mystery, Rules of the Game, etc...? Which one do u all suggest?


Are there any videos or DVDs that show these techniques in action, even better if they are done in real life and not with actors?

Thanks fellas.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mystery is a freak show IMO.

Best way to learn is getting out there and just approaching women and working on your verbal skills.

DEAL.
 

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I agree that practice is the most important thing...but I'm just looking for some guide to get the juices flowing and to get a couple of techniques down to get started....

Anybody can help?
 

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There are many GREAT articles you can read for free. Read those. They don't have advertisement, don't seek for money and are mostly pure honest. I learned everything I haven't found out by myself in them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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iFEEL said:
There are many GREAT articles you can read for free. Read those. They don't have advertisement, don't seek for money and are mostly pure honest. I learned everything I haven't found out by myself in them.
I agree there are a lot of articles, just wanted a book with all of it there.

Has anyone read Mystery's book or "Rules of the Game" by Srauss?

Also, are there any DVDs or anyything of the sort on the subject?

Thanks for all the help thus far guys.
 

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I've read Rules of the Game. I don't think it's as good as The Game, but it's still a fairly good read. But the Style Diaries aren't really worth it on their own, so don't buy it unless you're gonna do the Stylelife Challenge.

Also, Mysery's show was pretty good for brushing up on techniques, as it provides quite a few openers and routines. Same with the Annihalation Method DVD of Style's (get it through torrent or something).
 

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DJ Axton said:
I've read Rules of the Game. I don't think it's as good as The Game, but it's still a fairly good read. But the Style Diaries aren't really worth it on their own, so don't buy it unless you're gonna do the Stylelife Challenge.

Also, Mysery's show was pretty good for brushing up on techniques, as it provides quite a few openers and routines. Same with the Annihalation Method DVD of Style's (get it through torrent or something).
Thanks man. I'm new to this whole thing, some questions if you could help:

-Isn't The Game just the guy's story, and "The Rules of the Game" how to actually do it?
-is Style Diaries just another book? What does it have in it?
-What is the Stylelife Challenge, where do I get it?
-For Mystery's show are you referring to the VH1 show?
-What is torrent, and where do I find the Annihilatino Method thing?

Really appreciate it.
 

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fea8899 said:
Thanks man. I'm new to this whole thing, some questions if you could help:

-Isn't The Game just the guy's story, and "The Rules of the Game" how to actually do it?
-is Style Diaries just another book? What does it have in it?
-What is the Stylelife Challenge, where do I get it?
-For Mystery's show are you referring to the VH1 show?
-What is torrent, and where do I find the Annihilatino Method thing?

Really appreciate it.

Anyone?

ALso, are there bootcamp materials for download out there?
 

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check out foundations...RSD

The thing about products is that it gives most of the potent stuff all in one. For basic products depending on what you like....

1. Foundations
2. VAH
3. Magic bullets
4. Bradp underground seminar

Choose only one...

If you want free, check out rsdwiki, or any of the forums that has classic articles.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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