"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's the best book to buy to learn the seduction/attraction-building/opener techniques?

Mystery, Rules of the Game, etc...? Which one do u all suggest?


Are there any videos or DVDs that show these techniques in action, even better if they are done in real life and not with actors?

Thanks fellas.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mystery is a freak show IMO.

Best way to learn is getting out there and just approaching women and working on your verbal skills.

DEAL.
 

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I agree that practice is the most important thing...but I'm just looking for some guide to get the juices flowing and to get a couple of techniques down to get started....

Anybody can help?
 

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There are many GREAT articles you can read for free. Read those. They don't have advertisement, don't seek for money and are mostly pure honest. I learned everything I haven't found out by myself in them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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iFEEL said:
There are many GREAT articles you can read for free. Read those. They don't have advertisement, don't seek for money and are mostly pure honest. I learned everything I haven't found out by myself in them.
I agree there are a lot of articles, just wanted a book with all of it there.

Has anyone read Mystery's book or "Rules of the Game" by Srauss?

Also, are there any DVDs or anyything of the sort on the subject?

Thanks for all the help thus far guys.
 

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I've read Rules of the Game. I don't think it's as good as The Game, but it's still a fairly good read. But the Style Diaries aren't really worth it on their own, so don't buy it unless you're gonna do the Stylelife Challenge.

Also, Mysery's show was pretty good for brushing up on techniques, as it provides quite a few openers and routines. Same with the Annihalation Method DVD of Style's (get it through torrent or something).
 

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DJ Axton said:
I've read Rules of the Game. I don't think it's as good as The Game, but it's still a fairly good read. But the Style Diaries aren't really worth it on their own, so don't buy it unless you're gonna do the Stylelife Challenge.

Also, Mysery's show was pretty good for brushing up on techniques, as it provides quite a few openers and routines. Same with the Annihalation Method DVD of Style's (get it through torrent or something).
Thanks man. I'm new to this whole thing, some questions if you could help:

-Isn't The Game just the guy's story, and "The Rules of the Game" how to actually do it?
-is Style Diaries just another book? What does it have in it?
-What is the Stylelife Challenge, where do I get it?
-For Mystery's show are you referring to the VH1 show?
-What is torrent, and where do I find the Annihilatino Method thing?

Really appreciate it.
 

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fea8899 said:
Thanks man. I'm new to this whole thing, some questions if you could help:

-Isn't The Game just the guy's story, and "The Rules of the Game" how to actually do it?
-is Style Diaries just another book? What does it have in it?
-What is the Stylelife Challenge, where do I get it?
-For Mystery's show are you referring to the VH1 show?
-What is torrent, and where do I find the Annihilatino Method thing?

Really appreciate it.

Anyone?

ALso, are there bootcamp materials for download out there?
 

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check out foundations...RSD

The thing about products is that it gives most of the potent stuff all in one. For basic products depending on what you like....

1. Foundations
2. VAH
3. Magic bullets
4. Bradp underground seminar

Choose only one...

If you want free, check out rsdwiki, or any of the forums that has classic articles.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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