"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best Book and/or Video Technique Learning

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What's the best book to buy to learn the seduction/attraction-building/opener techniques?

Mystery, Rules of the Game, etc...? Which one do u all suggest?


Are there any videos or DVDs that show these techniques in action, even better if they are done in real life and not with actors?

Thanks fellas.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mystery is a freak show IMO.

Best way to learn is getting out there and just approaching women and working on your verbal skills.

DEAL.
 

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I agree that practice is the most important thing...but I'm just looking for some guide to get the juices flowing and to get a couple of techniques down to get started....

Anybody can help?
 

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There are many GREAT articles you can read for free. Read those. They don't have advertisement, don't seek for money and are mostly pure honest. I learned everything I haven't found out by myself in them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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iFEEL said:
There are many GREAT articles you can read for free. Read those. They don't have advertisement, don't seek for money and are mostly pure honest. I learned everything I haven't found out by myself in them.
I agree there are a lot of articles, just wanted a book with all of it there.

Has anyone read Mystery's book or "Rules of the Game" by Srauss?

Also, are there any DVDs or anyything of the sort on the subject?

Thanks for all the help thus far guys.
 

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I've read Rules of the Game. I don't think it's as good as The Game, but it's still a fairly good read. But the Style Diaries aren't really worth it on their own, so don't buy it unless you're gonna do the Stylelife Challenge.

Also, Mysery's show was pretty good for brushing up on techniques, as it provides quite a few openers and routines. Same with the Annihalation Method DVD of Style's (get it through torrent or something).
 

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DJ Axton said:
I've read Rules of the Game. I don't think it's as good as The Game, but it's still a fairly good read. But the Style Diaries aren't really worth it on their own, so don't buy it unless you're gonna do the Stylelife Challenge.

Also, Mysery's show was pretty good for brushing up on techniques, as it provides quite a few openers and routines. Same with the Annihalation Method DVD of Style's (get it through torrent or something).
Thanks man. I'm new to this whole thing, some questions if you could help:

-Isn't The Game just the guy's story, and "The Rules of the Game" how to actually do it?
-is Style Diaries just another book? What does it have in it?
-What is the Stylelife Challenge, where do I get it?
-For Mystery's show are you referring to the VH1 show?
-What is torrent, and where do I find the Annihilatino Method thing?

Really appreciate it.
 

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fea8899 said:
Thanks man. I'm new to this whole thing, some questions if you could help:

-Isn't The Game just the guy's story, and "The Rules of the Game" how to actually do it?
-is Style Diaries just another book? What does it have in it?
-What is the Stylelife Challenge, where do I get it?
-For Mystery's show are you referring to the VH1 show?
-What is torrent, and where do I find the Annihilatino Method thing?

Really appreciate it.

Anyone?

ALso, are there bootcamp materials for download out there?
 

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check out foundations...RSD

The thing about products is that it gives most of the potent stuff all in one. For basic products depending on what you like....

1. Foundations
2. VAH
3. Magic bullets
4. Bradp underground seminar

Choose only one...

If you want free, check out rsdwiki, or any of the forums that has classic articles.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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