Best bars and clubs in the USA for old men to meet younger women for hook ups

[davidsonj73]

Please name some!

I'm 63 by the way, and if I can't find a suitable woman for a LTR, I'll at least try to keep hooking up, though that seems harder to find women, especially good looking women interested in that the older I get.

I've been trying to find a suitable woman for a LTR for about 4 years, and haven't had many hook ups in that time either. It's not fun being old!

 

[Bokanovsky]

Clubbing at the age of 63 can be a little hard to pull off for the average Joe. Have you considered becoming a rich and famous celebrity or musician? That would make the task a lot easier!

 

[davidsonj73]

Clubbing at the age of 63 can be a little hard to pull off for the average Joe. Have you considered becoming a rich and famous celebrity or musician? That would make the task a lot easier!

@Bokanovsky I see your point. Where do you think someone my age should be looking to meet women?

 

[Plinco]

Why would any of the conventional advice change because of your age? Just go after the women you want. You're an adult and no one has any business telling you how to live your life, assuming that you respect the rights of others.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

None.

 

[The Duke]

There are a few upscale luxury lounges that attract younger women and older men. Most of the men pretend they have money and some do. You will run into a few decent women, but most are gold diggers and even a few prostitutes disguised as regular girls.

 

[MatureDJ]

@Bokanovsky I see your point. Where do you think someone my age should be looking to meet women?

Philippines.

 

[davidsonj73]

There are a few upscale luxury lounges that attract younger women and older men. Most of the men pretend they have money and some do. You will run into a few decent women, but most are gold diggers and even a few prostitutes disguised as regular girls.

@The Duke How do I avoid the prostitutes pretending to be regular women? I mean, I would know she was one if she mentioned a price for sex (which I wouldn't be interested in that), but what if instead she pretended to be a regular woman, and we dated and had sex? She could have STD(s)! Also, I think it's kind of weird that in the USA a man can't pay $X for sex (transactional), but he can have sex with his adult "girlfriend" and buy her expensive gifts. Maybe the transactional part/the "relationship" being all about sex is what would matter in many cases.

 

[The Duke]

@The Duke How do I avoid the prostitutes pretending to be regular women? I mean, I would know she was one if she mentioned a price for sex (which I wouldn't be interested in that), but what if instead she pretended to be a regular woman, and we dated and had sex? She could have STD(s)! Also, I think it's kind of weird that in the USA a man can't pay $X for sex (transactional), but he can have sex with his adult "girlfriend" and buy her expensive gifts. Maybe the transactional part/the "relationship" being all about sex is what would matter in many cases.

They try a lot harder and are a lot friendlier. They get a little pushy. Hang out long enough and you can sniff them out real quick.

 

[davidsonj73]

They try a lot harder and are a lot friendlier. They get a little pushy. Hang out long enough and you can sniff them out real quick.

I see. I'll definitely try to avoid them!

 

[BaronOfHair]

I've been trying to find a suitable woman for a LTR for about 4 years...

-You're desperate, and that drives not only women, but everyone else away

-LTR material is rarely, if ever, found at a bar or nightclub. That's similar for hunting around for a 4 star dining in rural Kazakhstan

 

[davidsonj73]

-You're desperate, and that drives not only women, but everyone else away

-LTR material is rarely, if ever, found at a bar or nightclub. That's similar for hunting around for a 4 star dining in rural Kazakhstan

Ok. I see your point.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Please name some!

I'm 63 by the way, and if I can't find a suitable woman for a LTR, I'll at least try to keep hooking up, though that seems harder to find women, especially good looking women interested in that the older I get.

I've been trying to find a suitable woman for a LTR for about 4 years, and haven't had many hook ups in that time either. It's not fun being old!

You are focusing on the wrong things. You are focusing on what are you doing so that you can go find them when you should be focusing on what you are doing so they want to find you.

If you don't understand this then you won't get far.

 

[Solomon]

There are a few upscale luxury lounges that attract younger women and older men. Most of the men pretend they have money and some do. You will run into a few decent women, but most are gold diggers and even a few prostitutes disguised as regular girls.

Back in the day (2000-2015) that used to be "THE W" tons of hot gorgeous Smokeshow's but half of them were "Elite" pros, and tons of business types looking to spent. The W has been dead for awhile now in my town wonder why they all went

 

[Solomon]

Why would any of the conventional advice change because of your age? Just go after the women you want. You're an adult and no one has any business telling you how to live your life, assuming that you respect the rights of others.

I'll bite, because most young women aren't looking to lay down with a 63-year-old if he was aiming for women in their 50s or 40s sure. If OP is looking for women in their 20s or even early 30s if he doesn't have that $$$ good luck with that(even then he'll just get a sugar baby or Golddigger at best).

If he's looking for 40/50 year old women, try the country club or a country bar, if he's looking for stuck-up bougie women then Juniper, Florida or Palm Springs, CA are his best bet, but even for those places, he is gonna need $$$

 

[The Duke]

Back in the day (2000-2015) that used to be "THE W" tons of hot gorgeous Smokeshow's but half of them were "Elite" pros, and tons of business types looking to spent. The W has been dead for awhile now in my town wonder why they all went

There is still one in my city. I think they call it something different but no one ever talks about it. Those places are always a schitt show full of people pretending to be something they aren't.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I'll bite, because most young women aren't looking to lay down with a 63-year-old if he was aiming for women in their 50s or 40s sure. If OP is looking for women in their 20s or even early 30s if he doesn't have that $$$ good luck with that(even then he'll just get a sugar baby or Golddigger at best).

If he's looking for 40/50 year old women, try the country club or a country bar, if he's looking for stuck-up bougie women then Juniper, Florida or Palm Springs, CA are his best bet, but even for those places, he is gonna need $$$

Especially not one that is seemingly as awkward as OP socially. To make that happen you would need to be extremely good looking, rich and very socially attuned. OP seems to be none of these.

 

[plumber]

Philippines.

this might be a joke, but its also true.

 

[devilkingx2]

I think there’s a website called seeking for exactly this purpose. You can find your sugar baby there OP have fun!

don’t go to Colombia, too many tourists get robbed or killed there.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

If there were a place (outside of fantasy land) where young women who weren't pros went to meet older dudes, that ratio would be 1,000,000:1.

If you can't meet the kind of ladies you want in your day to day, going to some mythical location ain't gonna help...