"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best and Worst ways to meet women

Soy

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I have made a list of ways of meeting girls from my personal experience and would like to see your inputs and opinions on these and stir some ideas.

These ways of meeting girls I am talking about are more general rather than specific and particular ways such as dance class vs. ballroom dancing (being general as the former and specific as the latter) because I want to factor out meeting "specific types" of women.

Not everyone has the same preferences and types of girls. In other words, not everyone likes to meeting women who goes "ballroom dancing", thus, this list being broad and general.

The list is based only in terms of a woman's openness and receptiveness to meeting you, and the success rate of a maintained relationship.

From Best to the Worst

1. Friends
2. School
3. Work
4. House party
5. Dating websites
6. Sarging/Day game
7. Clubbing
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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r0cky

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Thats interesting. All the guys I know who would be considrered "players" because they have abundance of women have the same list backwards. The list could also be called the easiest to hardest ways of meeting girls.
 

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If I were to flip that list backwards, it would be my Best to the Worst in ways of meeting the most women. But just to clarify, when I say clubbing, I am talking about clubs with high competition and loud music. And sarging as in cold approaching and street day game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is no worst way to meet women.
 
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