"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best and Worst ways to meet women

Soy

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I have made a list of ways of meeting girls from my personal experience and would like to see your inputs and opinions on these and stir some ideas.

These ways of meeting girls I am talking about are more general rather than specific and particular ways such as dance class vs. ballroom dancing (being general as the former and specific as the latter) because I want to factor out meeting "specific types" of women.

Not everyone has the same preferences and types of girls. In other words, not everyone likes to meeting women who goes "ballroom dancing", thus, this list being broad and general.

The list is based only in terms of a woman's openness and receptiveness to meeting you, and the success rate of a maintained relationship.

From Best to the Worst

1. Friends
2. School
3. Work
4. House party
5. Dating websites
6. Sarging/Day game
7. Clubbing
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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r0cky

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Thats interesting. All the guys I know who would be considrered "players" because they have abundance of women have the same list backwards. The list could also be called the easiest to hardest ways of meeting girls.
 

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If I were to flip that list backwards, it would be my Best to the Worst in ways of meeting the most women. But just to clarify, when I say clubbing, I am talking about clubs with high competition and loud music. And sarging as in cold approaching and street day game.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There is no worst way to meet women.
 
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