"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best and Worst ways to meet women

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I have made a list of ways of meeting girls from my personal experience and would like to see your inputs and opinions on these and stir some ideas.

These ways of meeting girls I am talking about are more general rather than specific and particular ways such as dance class vs. ballroom dancing (being general as the former and specific as the latter) because I want to factor out meeting "specific types" of women.

Not everyone has the same preferences and types of girls. In other words, not everyone likes to meeting women who goes "ballroom dancing", thus, this list being broad and general.

The list is based only in terms of a woman's openness and receptiveness to meeting you, and the success rate of a maintained relationship.

From Best to the Worst

1. Friends
2. School
3. Work
4. House party
5. Dating websites
6. Sarging/Day game
7. Clubbing
 
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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r0cky

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Thats interesting. All the guys I know who would be considrered "players" because they have abundance of women have the same list backwards. The list could also be called the easiest to hardest ways of meeting girls.
 

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If I were to flip that list backwards, it would be my Best to the Worst in ways of meeting the most women. But just to clarify, when I say clubbing, I am talking about clubs with high competition and loud music. And sarging as in cold approaching and street day game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There is no worst way to meet women.
 
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