"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best and Worst ways to meet women

Soy

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I have made a list of ways of meeting girls from my personal experience and would like to see your inputs and opinions on these and stir some ideas.

These ways of meeting girls I am talking about are more general rather than specific and particular ways such as dance class vs. ballroom dancing (being general as the former and specific as the latter) because I want to factor out meeting "specific types" of women.

Not everyone has the same preferences and types of girls. In other words, not everyone likes to meeting women who goes "ballroom dancing", thus, this list being broad and general.

The list is based only in terms of a woman's openness and receptiveness to meeting you, and the success rate of a maintained relationship.

From Best to the Worst

1. Friends
2. School
3. Work
4. House party
5. Dating websites
6. Sarging/Day game
7. Clubbing
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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r0cky

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Thats interesting. All the guys I know who would be considrered "players" because they have abundance of women have the same list backwards. The list could also be called the easiest to hardest ways of meeting girls.
 

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If I were to flip that list backwards, it would be my Best to the Worst in ways of meeting the most women. But just to clarify, when I say clubbing, I am talking about clubs with high competition and loud music. And sarging as in cold approaching and street day game.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There is no worst way to meet women.
 
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