"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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best affordable jeans?

defiancy

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I was wondering where I can find a good pair of gray jeans and other jeans that don't cost too much. What kind of brands do you guys recommend and which stores sell them
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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seanchai

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You can get a pair of Cheap Monday Tights for $60 in grey. They're not great quality but they're pretty nice. They sell them at Barneys I think.
 

Poonani Maker

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I've begun to like Eddie Bauer clothes plus it gives me an excuse to goto the mall and game some chicks. I used to get LLBean mail order, but I am starting to set my life up for maximum exposure to chicks; therefore, I'm going to a physical location now with a bigger crossection of women to do my purchases. I've asked women next to me in a store how she/they think this looks (shoes, shirt, pants whatever) and about 70% will tell me (it's usually the younger - 13 - 16 year old girls - that clam up when me, a total stranger asks them their opinion. They look at me like I'm dog**** and say lets go or call for their mom or something, but I don't give a ****, because they shouldn't be hovering around me if they don't want to get asked an innocuous and sincere question - It doesn't hurt to get a second opinion when you're making a purchase plus it shows you've got money which subliminally enters into a chicks mind always).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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