defiancy
Senior Don Juan
I was wondering where I can find a good pair of gray jeans and other jeans that don't cost too much. What kind of brands do you guys recommend and which stores sell them
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
best affordable jeans?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Poonani Maker
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I've begun to like Eddie Bauer clothes plus it gives me an excuse to goto the mall and game some chicks. I used to get LLBean mail order, but I am starting to set my life up for maximum exposure to chicks; therefore, I'm going to a physical location now with a bigger crossection of women to do my purchases. I've asked women next to me in a store how she/they think this looks (shoes, shirt, pants whatever) and about 70% will tell me (it's usually the younger - 13 - 16 year old girls - that clam up when me, a total stranger asks them their opinion. They look at me like I'm dog**** and say lets go or call for their mom or something, but I don't give a ****, because they shouldn't be hovering around me if they don't want to get asked an innocuous and sincere question - It doesn't hurt to get a second opinion when you're making a purchase plus it shows you've got money which subliminally enters into a chicks mind always).
Kev07
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cant go wrong with levis, or express jeans are pretty nice too
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.