defiancy
Senior Don Juan
I was wondering where I can find a good pair of gray jeans and other jeans that don't cost too much. What kind of brands do you guys recommend and which stores sell them
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
best affordable jeans?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Poonani Maker
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I've begun to like Eddie Bauer clothes plus it gives me an excuse to goto the mall and game some chicks. I used to get LLBean mail order, but I am starting to set my life up for maximum exposure to chicks; therefore, I'm going to a physical location now with a bigger crossection of women to do my purchases. I've asked women next to me in a store how she/they think this looks (shoes, shirt, pants whatever) and about 70% will tell me (it's usually the younger - 13 - 16 year old girls - that clam up when me, a total stranger asks them their opinion. They look at me like I'm dog**** and say lets go or call for their mom or something, but I don't give a ****, because they shouldn't be hovering around me if they don't want to get asked an innocuous and sincere question - It doesn't hurt to get a second opinion when you're making a purchase plus it shows you've got money which subliminally enters into a chicks mind always).
Kev07
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cant go wrong with levis, or express jeans are pretty nice too
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.