"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bent Over Row Form Check (video)

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Once again, just need some critique on form.

Personally, I noticed:

-some slight rounding of lower back
-a bit of a "hip drive" towards the end of my set

Any advice would be appreciated.

**I'm sure I'll catch shi* about the hat... *******s.. haha ;)

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rvYrzxmPvyY
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bent over rows are one of those exercise where there is some room for personal variance in form. Some guys bend over really far and some remain mostly upright. I think the 45 degree angle is best.

I would recommend straightening your legs out a bit, not to the point of locking your knees, but a slight bend. Feet should-width apart. Remember you're working your lats here, so your arms are just "hooks" linking the bar and your back. A little bit of upper body momentum is ok but don't overdo it. Also don't set the weight down each rep. It's not a deadlift. Hang on to the weight and row.
 

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Thanks Colossus, I appreciate the advice. One technique I have noticed among other people is deadlifting the weight, and then bending over to the appropriate position. I may give that a shot, and will also work on not "de-loading" the weight between reps.

And what about grip? Over hand or supinated? Would you have a preference or recommendation on either?? At this time, I'm not doing any isolation movements... would it behoove me to use a supinated grip to incorporate the bis more??

Thanks!
 

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I recommend a pronated grip to work the forearms, but I have done them with a supinated grip for extra bicep work. Best to do heavy weight with the pronated grip. You can play with different grip widths to hit different parts of the lats. Never use straps. If your gym doesn't allow chalk, find a way to sneak it in. They don't want you to be safe or strong.
 

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Sweet, thanks again. And I workout at home, so chalk wouldn't be a problem. I will look into it, thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh boy.....get rid of weights under your bar....you'll only gimping yourself. It's like doing bench press and racking up the bar every rep......

You should get a stand or something that can elevate you 1ft or so above the floor that way you can drive all the way through up and down for full extension. If you do this you wont have anywhere near the weight you are using I promise that.

http://doubleyourgains.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/how-to-bent-over-row-proper-form.jpg
 

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What makes it a Pendlay? The De-loading of weight??
 
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What makes it a Pendlay? The De-loading of weight??

Exactly. I switched over to Pendlays about 6 months ago. Great exercise.

Now just work on getting up to 250x5!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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