"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bent Over Row Form Check (video)

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Once again, just need some critique on form.

Personally, I noticed:

-some slight rounding of lower back
-a bit of a "hip drive" towards the end of my set

Any advice would be appreciated.

**I'm sure I'll catch shi* about the hat... *******s.. haha ;)

Vid:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rvYrzxmPvyY
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bent over rows are one of those exercise where there is some room for personal variance in form. Some guys bend over really far and some remain mostly upright. I think the 45 degree angle is best.

I would recommend straightening your legs out a bit, not to the point of locking your knees, but a slight bend. Feet should-width apart. Remember you're working your lats here, so your arms are just "hooks" linking the bar and your back. A little bit of upper body momentum is ok but don't overdo it. Also don't set the weight down each rep. It's not a deadlift. Hang on to the weight and row.
 

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Thanks Colossus, I appreciate the advice. One technique I have noticed among other people is deadlifting the weight, and then bending over to the appropriate position. I may give that a shot, and will also work on not "de-loading" the weight between reps.

And what about grip? Over hand or supinated? Would you have a preference or recommendation on either?? At this time, I'm not doing any isolation movements... would it behoove me to use a supinated grip to incorporate the bis more??

Thanks!
 

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I recommend a pronated grip to work the forearms, but I have done them with a supinated grip for extra bicep work. Best to do heavy weight with the pronated grip. You can play with different grip widths to hit different parts of the lats. Never use straps. If your gym doesn't allow chalk, find a way to sneak it in. They don't want you to be safe or strong.
 

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Sweet, thanks again. And I workout at home, so chalk wouldn't be a problem. I will look into it, thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh boy.....get rid of weights under your bar....you'll only gimping yourself. It's like doing bench press and racking up the bar every rep......

You should get a stand or something that can elevate you 1ft or so above the floor that way you can drive all the way through up and down for full extension. If you do this you wont have anywhere near the weight you are using I promise that.

http://doubleyourgains.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/how-to-bent-over-row-proper-form.jpg
 

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What makes it a Pendlay? The De-loading of weight??
 
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What makes it a Pendlay? The De-loading of weight??

Exactly. I switched over to Pendlays about 6 months ago. Great exercise.

Now just work on getting up to 250x5!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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