"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Benign Neglect And The Modern Man

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While I'm sure most of us agree that there are a few specific policy reforms which stand to disproportionately benefit men who are on the lower rungs of the socioecomic ladder (Ending The Drug War, Abolishing most forms of state aid in favor of steering folks into jobs, increasing access to vocational training), it's increasingly to tough to also not think: Someone needs to write an article along these lines https://www.esquire.com/news-politics/a162/esq1206blackessay-108/ , denouncing that portion of the male population recently discussed in a separate thread https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...r-life-who-are-strangers.282411/#post-3122787


Whatever problems exist within The System, what REALLY retards men in '24 is the worst of "us"... Specifically the Carl Benjamins, the Young Thugs, and their legions of imitators, who disdain things like upward mobility via intellectual expansion and physical toil as "Normie Stuff" or "Acting White", and who instead valorize the thug existence or being real-life equivalents to protagonists in a Judd Apatow movie

A proposal that's likely to be inflammatory: It's time for "ascended men" to wish congenital schlubs like these well, then forget that such fella ever existed. Just as women may be concerned with the state of the planet overall, but spend no more than a few seconds each year sweating the fates of cat ladies and dive bar strumpets, we need to send the schlubs on their way. Let's instead start extolling the most virtuous of ourselves. Talking here men like

-David Nott https://www.npr.org/sections/health...-covid-19-is-like-fighting-an-invisible-enemy

-Chris Haroun https://www.fastcompany.com/9096852...class-sparked-a-groundbreaking-rwandan-school

-Matthew Alexander

-Robert Woodson https://www.amazon.com/Triumphs-Joseph-Community-Reviving-Neighborhoods/dp/1416567860

-Chen Guangcheng https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podca...t-tyranny-in-the/id1571771739?i=1000589800564

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Let's instead start extolling the most virtuous of ourselves
And on a similar note https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...r-life-who-are-strangers.282411/#post-3123146 , let's also start openly and vociferously denouncing male Feminists who take roles such as these https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/my-movie-review-blue-valentine.270230/ rather than recoiling in disgust upon reading the script, for they also represent what's most REPUGNANT in modern men

If we're serious about helping men who aren't doing well, let's start putting out PSAs encouraging guys to help themselves, by NOT being an unmotivated schlub with zero ambitions, who settles for a broad who's pregnant with another man's child

Ya never know... Society just might start showing us a bit more respect, if we start respecting ourselves a trifle more than most men today do
 
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